A question for the daddies out there...?

Question

When your wife/girlfriend/whatever was pregnant, how did you feel about it? Did you find her more, equally, or less attractive? Were you creeped out by the baby in there, and didnt want to have sex, or did it matter to you? AFTER baby, did you still find her as attractive as before? Do you see her differently than you did before the baby came along? What ways?

Just curious...
I'm a mama, and I know how my man feels. Just wondering how OTHER men feel about their significant other during and after pregnancy. Thanks guys! :)

Answer 1

When my wife was pregnant I was scared ****less!
I didn't feel like I was prepared for the responsibility. I found her more attractive in every way during and after.

Answer 2

I felt quite happy about it and found her attractive before, during, and after. There's nothing creepy about a pregnant woman, though during sex you kinda' feel like you'll jostle the poor little guy around. After the babies I see her differently as a person, since she matured into a good mother.

Answer 3

I am not my husband but I know how he would answer this. He loved me pregnant. He probably found me equally attractive, if not more, but probably in a different way. He wasn't creeped out and yes he still wanted to have sex. He still finds me attractive. I don't know if he sees me differently, probably not because if he did I am sure I would know.

Answer 4

I have two girls (13 and 9 years old) I went to every doctor visit, I read to her stomach and played music. I was excited and very much involved. I treated My then wife like a Queen. Now when the baby was 3 she left out of the blue. for 5 years I was mom and dad...I love my girls very much.

Answer 5

To be perfectly honest, I never wanted to have sex with her before nor after. The main difference about her after the birth(been a year) is that she has never stopped complaining and whining about even the smallest of things. For what it's worth, that is my observation.