why is he still interested in other females whether it be just looking or talking about how great this chick is or that chick is. I just had a baby two months ago, I'm not really fat I am 5'8 and 133 lbs. But seem like all the girls that he looks at or talks about are totally different looking than me. I wouldn't say that I am ugly! I think that I'm actually pretty even without makeup! What's the deal!
2007-02-11 14:14:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you'll get your banging body back soon enough, until then, let him look. then itll be your time to shine and then he won't have any need to talk or look. but look ONLY the second he touches or you think hes gone too far, rip him a new assh*le. he more than likely is very happy with you but is unsure of where you guys stand, if its his baby and all. but dont let it bug you too much
2007-02-11 14:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by christopher_austins_mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He truly has a problem...so don't look at yourself for the answer....
I'm sure you are beautiful...
But, even if you were 5,000 lbs. .... and he chose you.... why would you have to put up with it....
I think that men really need to learn order in their relationships....you come first...and all of the other chicks...need to get off his mind...
That is what we deserve...it is not to be controlling....but, why bring in unnecessary problems...
So, that is the way that I see it....and if he isn't willing to be respectful of your feelings..and your relationship...then....you may have a decision that you need to make...
P.S. be sure to let him know how you feel...kindly....give him the fair chance to do the right thing....don't think that you will run him off if you set some standards...because if he leaves...he was going to anyway....
2007-02-11 22:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by LIFECOACH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The baby is taking away some of the attention that before was all his. It may be immature, but its not the end of the world. He is either trying to make you jealous or he is going about the wrong way to suggest he would prefer you pre-pregnant figure.
2007-02-11 22:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by The Central Scrutinizer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 58 and just had a baby. that's very brave. if you are happy that is good . the men need that to feel young or interesting .do the same when you see someone you like
2007-02-11 22:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by claudia_diver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not happy with you at all and he definitley does not love you the way that you love him. Get out now and move on with your life. You deserve better then this. The only one he should be involved with is the baby and not you.
2007-02-11 22:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do. Plus he's pretty sure of himself where you are concerned. I'd let him know a thing or two. Sounds like you deserve better.
2007-02-11 22:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to shut his stupid mouth before he loses you..I have a tendency or used to ..to talk about other women i have known.. no woman likes you to talk about another woman ,be it fat ,skinny ,gorgeous or whatever.. tell him that is first rule of thumb with marriage or serious relationship..I have been married twice once 23 years and the other four. tell him if he doesnt believe you to email me and ill set him straight but he is going to get himself into it deep if not with you with his next relationship.. if he has any intelligence tell him to keep his thoughts to himself
2007-02-12 02:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How rude of him! Sounds like he's not using his brain. Talk to him and tell him how much this bothers you. He's just not thinking.
2007-02-11 22:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by 2Bme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's immature, its not you. even if he had one of those "hot chicks" he would still be doing the same thing
2007-02-11 22:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants to see how you react, trying to make you jealous, sounds like he wants attention.....Jesus loves you
2007-02-11 22:21:13 · answer #10 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋