my situation is hard to explain.. i am best friends with my husbands ex they were together and split up 7 years ago.. well my husband and i got together two years ago and left his girlfriend at the time for me.. well my best friends is friends with her.. and she doesnt even like her.. she talks trash about her all the time.. and then when this girl texts her.. she is a goody goody to her. and when i say something bad she snaps on me and takes her side.... i just dont know what to do.. should i just let her go and forget about our friendship.. mind you she has stabbed me in the back more times than i can count but i have always forgived her.. she wasnt there for me when i misscarried but i was there for her when she had her surgerys.. we have fist fought in my dinning room.. i love the girl to death but i am so fed up with the bulls**t.. someone please give me your advice
2007-02-11 13:29:34 · 9 answers · asked by angeleyes468 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
let me also say that i cant completely let this girl go.. she is also the mother of my beautiful step son.. i know its weird guys buti am completely lost and have no idea what to do
2007-02-11 13:38:09 · update #1
Let me first say that I am SOOOO sorry! I know almost 100% how you feel. I still can't analize the girl taht's doing this to me, and that's really weird... But anyway, I dont think that this girl is such a great friend. Maybe it's time for you to find a friend that w/ listen to EVERYTHING you say, still be friends, but more 'long distance' kind.
2007-02-11 13:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense but you seem to have bad taste in friends. I can understand hearing a story like this about an aquaintance or a distant friend. However you should always be able to trust a best friend no matter what!
I would suggest dropping her as a friend, or at least demoting her down from "best friend" status,and shopping around for a new one.
It might take a while ti find a really great best friend, but she is no friend if she stabs you in the back.
2007-02-11 21:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is stressing you out, I think the best thing to do is distance from your friend for a while. If she asks why, tell her why, but politely. If she says she will change, give her a chance, but if you see she is not growing up, maybe it is best to let her go. If she does not even bother to contact you, you can pretty well bet she is not worth having as a friend anyway. If you cannot let go completely, just contact her occasionally and keep things light.
2007-02-11 21:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by Katykins 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a destructive relationship. Forget about her and move on. She sounds like she has to have a lot of drama in her life. Unless you have the energy for it I'd cut her out of your life.
2007-02-11 21:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her this is how you feel and what you expect from a friend and if she cant deal with your expectations move on
2007-02-11 21:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by dan m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u seem to have a funny social group,
2007-02-11 21:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by SMB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes cut her loose
2007-02-11 21:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by nkahuntr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need a new friend to me....
2007-02-11 21:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by BJC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say dump her...shes a *****!
2007-02-11 21:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by California_Beach_Girl_14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋