We both love each other and we been seeing each other for more than a year.
2007-02-11 13:28:55 · 20 answers · asked by prettyemily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's using you for sex or he would have left his wife by now, no excuses. Try dating a single guy, less stress and more morals.
2007-02-11 13:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by HereIAm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously are feeling shame for this, as you are posting this to yahoo answers 1 year after the fact that you became weakened by a sneaky man whom certainly does not know the first thing about love or having a sexually gradifying experience in his own bedroom, thus, you were obviously flattered by his affection and attentitive nature, that I'm sure his own wife desires, as she is HUMAN, and a WOMAN, just like you.
Grow up, Learn to love yourself, and find a REAL man who loves only you. It isn't funny being on the back burner all the time and one day you will be.
I think every single woman out there right now who is involved with a married man, Please, Go to the United States Census Bereu web site and compare the facts on marriages, age, etc... Quite interesting! Find your city and see how many are in your preferred age bracket and bust it down... Why break up a marriage, happy or not, the facts are there - There are enough single men to choose from.
I think that from a woman's perspective and one of a wife of 10 years at age 30 to whom my marriage was deeply fractured 5 years ago when he LEFT for months with the married secretary from his work. I lost my home, my bills were shut off and yet he did not care b/c he was in a bliss with a MARINE's wife who just felt so lonely since her man went to fight for our country. WTF?
Think of it this way... The last single man you dated... When things started going downhill and you confided in your close girlfriend for direction and relief, how would you have felt if she was taking all those secrets you told her, sexual ones too, and then made her move on your man.
Well this is in a sence what you are doing to the wife, the only difference is, your only hearing his side and she is just the innocent (probably clueless & faithful) wife at home.
I guess I will never understand that of dating a married man or cheating...
Women like you are pretty high dollar in this world... Hope he's giving you your chunk of the change without taking from the mouths at his home that you could never make for him and I bet you have no interest in.
MOVE ON, if you have any decent bone in your body, move on, love your self and live life right. You know what's right and what's wrong.
2007-02-11 14:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just understand that this relationship might feel good, but it is predicated on a violation of trust that could wind up hurting a great many people....and if children are involved, it could take the next couple generations to repair the damage. You have a proper place in this world, and it is not being the "other woman" in some other family tree. Take care.
2007-02-11 13:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should noe be seeing a married man. This is just wrong. If he loves you so much why is he still married to his wife then? You need to dump this guy and get away from him and move on with your life without him in it! Has he told his wife about you? If not then maybe you should be the one to tell her.
2007-02-11 13:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want a silver star or what? What is your question.. ? You are committing adultery and can be involved in a nasty law suit and also be the victim of bodily harm from a spouse that isnt a happy camper .. not a good situation to be in .. Im not sure what you are asking here but whatever you do be careful you are in a very dangerous place not only legally but otherwise..
2007-02-11 19:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what exactly is your question?
Do you seriously think he loves you? Then why is he still w/his wife? And even if he did leave her for you, what makes you think he wouldn't turn around and cheat on you?
You need to find a single man to have a relationship with. Stay away from married men.
2007-02-11 13:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A married man cannot love you if he is married and is only taking your real life away. Being older than you he should know better.
2007-02-11 13:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loved you, he would of respected you enough to get a divorce. Show some respect for yourself and the sanctity of marriage and end it until he is truly available. If it is really meant to be, then it will happen. Be aware though: ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER! If he is cheating on his wife with you, what makes you so different that he will not cheat on you??
2007-02-11 13:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Lynsey T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most married man just want some fun out side their marriage knowing leaving her would be much harder like getting divorce and paying child support and... so he may end up leaving you.. just think if he is doing his wife wrong why won't he do you!
2007-02-11 13:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Holy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, you may love him, he is just in lust with the sex you can provide, thats all
when will they ever learn that a married man is only after sex from them, if he wanted more he would leave his family to be with the OTHER woman?
2007-02-11 14:25:30 · answer #10 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋