I think this guy at my job is just gorgeous as well as have a beautiful spirit. We first talked and afterwards he gave me a hug and a kiss on the neck. Well, after that happened I would see him and he touch me on my shoulder and give me a smile. Now it is this doctor that has the hots for me and he is stalker type. The doctor kinda followed me around so I saw this guy and gave him a hug and the doctor turned the other way. I had no chance to explain to him about this situation. Now it seems as though he is avoiding me. I can't even stop him to tell him the reason why I hugged him in such a way. Anyway, I gave him a V-day card early and told him in the card that if I did anything to offend him please accept my apology because his kindness seemed to have stopped after that day I hugged him. He still says hi to me and smile but it wasn't like the beginning. Was that a good way to handle this situation? I think he is just a beautiful person and I would like to be his friend.
2007-02-11 13:08:04 · 3 answers · asked by juicygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you handled it just fine. Just give him space and let him make the next move so he doesn't think you are the stalker type.
2007-02-11 13:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sara G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOES THIS GUY KNOW THE DOCTOR? Who is avoiding you the doctor oft the guy? You need to approach both people and tell them where you stand, they may not like it, but it will make your life easy to function.
2007-02-11 21:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by whatevit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the most devout gay people would be affended if a straight hugged them
2007-02-11 21:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋