Ok so I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, and we have been through so much, I moved to san diego to take a break and eventually came back to San Jose for him, he promised things would change, but so far everything is the same. I am only 22 and I am wondering if im missing out on something.
2007-02-11 12:40:48 · 23 answers · asked by krista10 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have this serious of doubts, maybe it is time to move on. If it's only been a short time, you may need to give him a little more time to change. Quick changes are hard and don't usually last. But, it seems like you've given a lot of chances and it hasn't gotten better, so my gut would say move on.
2007-02-11 12:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by petral6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well apparently he just said that to get you back to san jose, if i were you in this situation i'd broaden my horizons, you are still young and have alot to experience. Move on and experience life, i'm sure Prince Charming is out there waiting for you, you haven't found him yet but he's waiting.
Good Luck
2007-02-11 12:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young after 4 years and things are not changing for the better it time to move on. There are big and better fish in the sea just take your time to find the right one.
2007-02-11 12:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by miztycal mist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ultimately this is your decision, but if he promised you something and it hasn't happened then, you have to decided how important that is.... I would tell him how you feel, and that you are wanting to leave because he promises are not kept, then give him a set time to change if not then leave, that way its set..... I had a friend and her boyfriend was kind of weird, they fought all the time, she gave him an ultimatum to quit fighting, and gave him 3 months to do it.... He did change for her, but its really your decision.... but let him know how you feel... you should have a relationship that is open if not then yeah leave. Hope that helped.
2007-02-11 12:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by amazonkittycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine yourself 20 years from now, can you live like this for the next 20 years? Is this what you've always dreamed of? Sounds like its just a habit being with him and that you both know its over....its just hard to let go. Good luck.
2007-02-11 12:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by My_Two_Centz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If nothing has changed and you feel like your missing out on something you need to leave. Your young and need to take this time to get know yourself and what you want instead of playing house.
2007-02-11 12:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by PasoBrio13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly were you taking a break from in the first place? 22 is still young.... but if you love him and want to be with him then make it work
2007-02-11 12:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 22, I can guarantee you are missing out on stuff. if you are not happy, leave leave leave. you are too young to be tied down to someone you do not want to be with. RUN, DONT walk....and stay single until you are at least 28 and you know who you are and what you want in a partner.
2007-02-11 14:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by Sapphired_Up 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're missing out on having someone who really loves you. If he is verbally or physically abusive, run while you can. You deserve someone who loves and respects a relationship enough to keep his word. You're too young to be wasteing time on him. Find someone else that will make you happy.
2007-02-11 12:57:36 · answer #9 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, ur missing out on being young and stupid..and if u dont do it now..u'll end up doing it later..when u have a husband and kids..
u should never settle..if ur on here..and ur asking us all this question theres clearly a problem...
ur younge why not live a little fist..see what happens in time..
if u love him..live ur own life for awhile.. see whats out there..b4 u settle..bc thats not fair to you ..or to him!
2007-02-11 12:47:28 · answer #10 · answered by lisa baby... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋