2007-02-11 12:31:16 · 31 answers · asked by victor_111262 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I will leave you this.
If you put a jelly bean in a jar for every time you have sex in the 1st 6 months, then take one out every time you do AFTER 6 months, you will never empty the jar.
2007-02-11 12:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by rowdy rick 6 · 3⤊ 5⤋
Well it depends on many different things, like for instance are there children, work schedule, did you live together before getting married, but sometimes those things in themselves can drain a person and sex is not in the front of there mind. But also sometimes it depends on the person, some people when they become legal bound to someone they give up the chase, and they have someone so they don't have to have sex all the time to keep that person around.... But it really depends on you and your significant other, if you explain the importance of it in your relationship than it shouldn't be a problem, Having sex is very important in marriage on many different levels, it gives the significant other a sense of dependency and intimacy, they are still attractive, and so on.. so it depends on you and your other.
2007-02-11 20:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by amazonkittycat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! It really isn't! It's what you put into the marriage, you get out of it!
It is different for everybody. I just think that when others are bitter about their marriages, there are many factors as to WHY they feel that way.
And when someone gets hurt, of course the subject of marriage, OR dating for that matter is one bad attitude about it!
People get married for the wrong reasons, or weren't ready in the first place, could be TOO YOUNG, communication being bad and bringing problems into the marriage. There are SO MANY things!
Marriage depends on the way you live it!
2007-02-11 23:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by julesrules 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the individual couple. There is never a one-size fits all answer to classifying groups of people or states of being. Never is it the case that an entire group of people experiences a condition (like marriage, bacheolorhood, fatherhood, etc) in EXACTLY the same way. Thus, I'm not sure what you are trying to gain from this question because there logically cannot be a satisfactory answer.
2007-02-11 20:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by Evan 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not necessarily. A lot of that is up to you and your partner and how well you two communicate. There will be down times. Like when you start having kids, working full time, taking care of a house. It gets to be quite tiring. This is where you two will need to communicate to make sure both needs are met. I mean, marriage isn't something you just live through. It's something you have to work at and the work never ends. It shouldn't be that hard, but it doesn't flow either without some work.
2007-02-11 20:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by CC 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Not at all. My husband and I have a very active sex life and we have been married 11 years. We still are always experimenting and finding new ways to bring each other pleasure. If others have a bad sex life after marriage it is probably because they let it get stale. They don't try new things and don't trust each other enough to experiment and share their desires and fantasies. I truly feel sorry for them. They don't know what they are missing out on.
2007-02-11 20:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by navy wife 1996 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
for some people it's good...but for others it's not...
the complaint I 've been hearing is that when you get married you do it every day then once a month then every three months then once a year and if you don't like that you just get a divorce... I met people who actually sleep in separate rooms... not every couple can keep the heat on for long time.... you have to work together as a team... and it takes a lot...it varies individually...
2007-02-11 20:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no married sex life is what you both make it, if one of you are more into it at the beging than the other one ,your sex after you get married will sizzle out , I know from 30 year`s of every night.
2007-02-11 20:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by chance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been watching too many sitcoms. Married sex comes out of the bond that only comes with years of sharing. Whatever drawback there might be, it beats serial relationships by a mile.
2007-02-11 20:35:59 · answer #9 · answered by Terri J 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
no it not it just that people are so busy that they can not have a sex life but if people had more time they will be more of a sex life.
2007-02-11 20:40:05 · answer #10 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the kids are little sometimes the people are too tired or the libido isn't all that strong. I recommend that the mom and dad have their own space and be physically fit. I believe that I read that overweight people don't have as much sex as others so keep fit!!! Gaba Gaba Hey!
2007-02-11 20:38:39 · answer #11 · answered by loveistheanswer 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋