So tomorrow she is coming over with a priest to have a talk with me. Now what I do not agree with about christianity is the fact that they judge everyone and have absolutely no tolerance for anybody who is different, major example: gay people. Now I know that the priest tomorrow is going to come with something in the Bible that will tell me that he is correct, but I need someone who is a knowledgeable about the Bible to shut their points down, so to speak. Help!
2007-02-11 12:16:59 · 7 answers · asked by buffycutshair 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Okay, were to begin, almost every one of the Christian holidays are taken from pagan/wiccan holidays. Secondly, there are missing techs from the bible that a pagan empire Constine denied at the Council of Nicaea.
Festival name, date, sun's Position
Samhain (/ˈsawənʲ/), Last Harvest, Blood Harvest, Ancestor Night, Feast of the Dead 1 Nov (alt. 5-10 Nov) ≈ 15° ♏
Yule, Alban Arthan, Midwinter, Winter Rite 20-23 Dec (winter solstice) ≈ 0° ♑
Imbolc, Brigid's Day, Candlemas, Bride's Day, Brigantia 2 Feb (alt. 2-7 Feb) ≈ 15° ♒
Ostara, Alban Eilir, Lady Day, Festival of Trees 19-22 Mar (spring equinox) ≈ 0° ♈
Beltane, May Day 1 May (alt. 4-10 May) ≈ 15° ♉
Midsummer, Alban Hefin, Aerra Litha, Mother Night 19-23 June (summer solstice) ≈ 0° ♋
Lughnasadh (/luːnəsə/), Lammas, 1st Harvest, Bread Harvest, Festival of First Fruits 1 Aug (alt. 3-10 Aug) ≈ 15° ♌
Mabon, Alban Elfed, Harvest Home, 2nd Harvest, Fruit Harvest, Wine Harvest 21-24 Sept (autumn equinox) ≈ 0° ♎
In these holidays there are some overlapping relations between the two religions. There are even books left out of the bible that refer to Jesus as a Man not the son of God.
Below is a link to a list of lost books of the bible that may be of help. Hope some of this helps you!
2007-02-11 16:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa Breazeale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him off immediatly by saying that you are an adult and can make your own choices as far as your life is concerned. And remind them BOTH that this is YOUR house. Why don't you arrange to have your husband, parent(s) or friends be there so back you up. If it were me I would invite everyone I could think of to be there. You know, the old there's strength in numbers bit. Once your friends start in on Mom and the priest, they won't stay long.
2007-02-11 15:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll never be able to shut his points down. He'll be well versed. Here's the thing. Ain't nothing wrong with Christianity. It's the ChristIANS that bother me, and I suspest you as well if you thought about it. Not trying to change your mind here, I'm a Buddhist, ok. Just saying that you shouldn't make the same mistake that they are making....being judgemental or prejudicial. My 2 cents......nod your head, agree, go to Church once, let it blow over. It's all about politics with the inlaws, isn't it? I do lots of stuff with my boyfriend's family that I don't wanna do in the name of being accepted into the family. Politics, not beliefs.
2007-02-11 13:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by ramblin' robert 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No problem.
First of all, if you don't want to be a Christian, YOU DON'T WANT TO BE QUOTING THE BIBLE! If you start quoting the Bible your just REINFORCING THEIR IDEA that the Bible is the be-all and end-all of "getting to Heaven." What you want to do is discover your own reasons for not wanting to be Christian!
Like judgemental reasonings, passing judgement on others without regard for their actions, just passed on their "sins"; that you do not appreciate being ganged up on in order to be "saved." That your sorry she can't approve of your decision but your old enough to make your own, as her son is his able to make his own. Just because you may make a decision doesn't mean your husband has to follow suit (her son) and if that's her worry to speak to him, not you.
I could help you from the Bible if you had specific talking points, but again, that would be counter-productive if your "giving it up."
I applaud you on your bravery! But, please realize that there are many, many accepting churches such as the UCC and the MCC that fully accept gay, lesbian and transgendered people! : ))
2007-02-11 13:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's your house, then don't allow them in. If they come to convert you even though you know their brand of Christianity isn't for you, then don't allow them into your house. It's your property and your safe space away from hostility. Even if it's not your property, if they try to follow you and force their religion on you you can threaten to go to the police. In most states in the U.S. you somewhat have the right to be free of harassment from Christians.
2007-02-11 14:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh this is too simple.
Just don't be home. Don't answer the door, don't allow them in.
You have the LEGAL right to not be forced into any religion that you don't want.
If they persist, call the police and have them arrested for trespassing.
2007-02-11 15:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having to change urself just to be accepted that's complete bull.
u shouldn't have to do that. they should just deal with it man. i was raised catholic but i'm not very religious myself, so i don't know.
i guess do what u have to do
good luck to man
laterz..
2007-02-11 13:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by pulse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋