Should I fake an orgasim,or tell my husband im not satisfied without hurting his feelings.?

Answer 1

Don't fake it, but don't say it like that either. Once he's done, if you aren't tell him that you liked it but you want more. Try to make it a situation of "I can't get enough of you" instead of "you aren't very good at this."

Answer 2

No. faking is not the answer here. You need to be honest with him and tell him that for some reason you are not being able to do this. Try having him give you oral sometime and teach him where your spot is and have him learn and that way he will get much better at it. Also try using a couples toy while having intercourse. This may help as well and will be pleasurable for both of you. You may also want to see a sex therapist together to work on this problem with him.

Answer 3

Do not fake. Communication is key to a good marriage. Don't be mean or accusatory about it. Make it into something fun and sexy. Try showing him what you like - he may actually find it a turn on. When he touches you, put your hands over his and guide them. In the midst of foreplay, whisper in his ear something you would like to try. Most guys like it when you tell them "I would really love it if you did (fill in the blank)" or "It really turns me on when you kiss me (fill in the blank) or touch me (fill in the blank). Surprise him one evening by initiating sex, taking control being the driver so to speak. He'll probably love it and it will give you a chance to show him what turns you on. Give him positive feedback when he is doing something right - moan a little, dig your fingers into his back or hair, tell him how good it feels. Men are not clairvoyant. He's only going to know what turns you on and what you like if you communicate that to him. Otherwise he is going to assume that what feels good for him feels good for you too (especially if you are faking an orgasm) Don't start faking now, because you don't want to be in the same predicament 5 years from now - it will be even more difficult to tell him then. Commuication is as key to a fullfilling sex life as it is to every other part of a successful marriage. Good luck

Answer 4

First, tell the truth, wait for the moment and tell the truth...be kind...be tender...but tell the truth

Second, learn what you like so you can teach him the things you like. Do you like fingers, tell him, do you like tongue, tell him, do you like vibrators, tell him and then show him.

Third, be sure to tell him and reward him when he does it right and he will try harder.

Fourth, remember that when it comes to intercourse most guys don't last long so he might have to learn to hold the climax back to give your more time to enjoy. If you don't climax and he does finish the job and you might find he will enjoy the view and maybe be ready for more fun.

We have loved for years and it has only gotten better once we got over any hurt in learning that we were not doing things just right. Hugs to ya and "get er don"!

Answer 5

Don't fake it. Tell your husband what to do in order to satisfy you. That is what my wife did and we have had a much better sex life. You may feel a little ashamed to tell him, but believe me, he will appreciate it.

Answer 6

No, don't fake it. Tell him what you like and what you need him to do. It's okay to help him. You want to be satisfied too.

Answer 7

Maybe it's your problem, not his! Maybe you're not telling him what you like! Ever think that it could be your fault instead of your husbands? You aren't satisfied? Is that all that matters when you two have sex? Pretty selfish.

Answer 8

Definitely no to faking the orgasm. If you do, you'll never have one. At least not with your husband!! LOL

Instead tell him what pleases you. Then make him do it!

Answer 9

Don't say your not satisfied and don't fake an orgasm. Tell him how he could do it better ;)

Answer 10

There's no nice of telling your husband he $ucks at sex :).

Try showing him new tricks XD.