I used to have a bunch of friends but theyve all gone away. i mean all the friends i do have are guys. but i miss being one of the girls. hanging out and giggling like a idiot. i mean i cant shop with guys. but yet i cant seem to relate to any girls. I always feel like theyre bothered by me, like theyre either trying to be better then me or just dont care. or all my stories or to "boyish". i just dont know what to do. i miss my girlfriends and i dont know why they dont like me. am i doomed to just be "one of the guys" forever?
2007-02-11 11:47:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're still in school right? Since you probably are, try this. Talk to girls that seem friendly. If you have activities during classes, partner up with girls. Start a normal conversation like you would with one of your friends. After awhile, you should be able to tell which ones actually treat the conversations like friends would. Try sitting with them at lunch at some point (say something like, "I'm going to sit with you today." I don't think they would really care.)
Hope that helps.
2007-02-11 12:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by I am soooo splendiferous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain! I'm the same way. I don't know what to do. Guys react positively to me but girls seem disgusted. I'm not into fashion, celebrities, badmouthing guys, and all that so that could have something to do with it...are you the same way? I just can't relate to most women's interests. But I definitely miss the giggling and sharing that is just not the same with guys. It's almost like you can't have one without the other. If you want to giggle with the girls, you have to like what they like. But if you're kind of tom-boyish or just not all "girlygirly" you're not allowed in the secret club. :[ I don't know. I guess you just have to keep an eye out for girls with your interests. Maybe they also have mostly male friends. Ask your guy friends if they of their friends have any girl friends you might have something in common with!
2007-02-11 12:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say some issues (sorry im no longer a guy...yet this won't likely appear as if a 'mens wellbeing' question. before everything, e book to be sure your gp, it seems such as you're able to be feeling very low, which could be led to via all style of issues; hormonal, own and scientific. stability your nutrition recurring, verify which you're growing to be to be sufficient of the all nutrition communities. Sleep, whether its confusing for a mutually as, attempt for 2 weeks to circulate to mattress, on the hours of darkness, in quiet on a similar time for a similar volume of time (alarm clock time) to attempt and push your physique right into a recurring. Have a tub/bathe earlier you circulate to mattress, turn off all distractions and confirm you're nicely hydrated. ultimately, as quickly as you have booked into see your wellbeing practitioner, attempt to no longer difficulty, stressing that something could be incorrect would desire to be making it worse than it in any different case would be. that's basic to sense intimidated via social events in the journey that your out of shape, women aside, attempt going to the pub for an hour, drag a paintings colleague in the journey that your pals are not around. (however undergo in strategies alcohol is a stimulant, so drink j2o and so on in the journey that your attempting to sleep greater efficient.
2016-11-03 04:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's because u lost ur mojo man!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-11 11:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by Vincent Luciano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋