Please share true and honest theories about soulmates and how we might find them. Or if we think we found him/her.. how do we really know?
I am a firm believer in the theory that we are beings of energy, etc, so I would like to get ideas based on that.
(If you need me to elaborate my questions, just ask and I will do my best.)
2007-02-11 11:41:49 · 10 answers · asked by Dawn H 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
One more thing.. I believe a soul to be "energy with a conciousness".
This may help elaborate on what I am looking for. So mateship between "souls" can exist.
2007-02-11 11:57:32 · update #1
I believe we create soul-ties with people, but not necessarily that every person has one soul-mate. We create soul-ties in all type of relationships(initmate or not). I believe that there are more than one person that would could decide to settle down with but it is more about the timing in life who exactly the person my be. Our needs in other people change in different phases of our lives but i do believe or at least i hope one can come to the point where they can be completely content with on partner.
2007-02-11 11:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah M 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you realize that below the conscious mind there is a mind 5 times more effective, according to scientists, that ' totally objective, considers all options, even fantasies and lies, before deciding and you get in contact by carefully interviewing the thoughts from it, excluding your own thoughts, you can develop a super intuition. Then your intuition will tell you and you will pick someone else with intuition and a sense of humanity and honesty that will do you proud. Anything else and I told you so. You've heard of "the narrow road'? That's it. The good news is, then your will "know the truth and the truth will set you free." It's like a child is restricted, but when he grows and learns to drive, he can go anywhere. Gotta go through the portal though or you may never grow up. That's sort of the rest of "The Secret". But then "What the Bleep Do I Know?"
2007-02-11 11:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by hb12 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It assumes two vague things to be real.
1. A soul (explain me why i need a soul please)
2. A preceding state in which the 'mateship' among those souls was formed (this is canceled out by Ockam's razor: an abstract conception cannot constitute a kind of entities)
Anyway, why would someone reasonable even try to believe this?
2007-02-11 11:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Johannes 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Excellent question! Like you, I am a firm believer in soul mates ... but as romantic as the notion seems, I don't believe each of us only has one.
Finding your soul mate is no different than finding someone who's not your soul mate. You can meet your soul mate at work, in the grocery store ... anywhere. I'm not sure HOW you'll know you've met them, but I think you'll know.
Good luck.
2007-02-11 12:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by BlakWriter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I spent a lifetime looking for love (isn't that a song? Urban Cowboy)...anyhow, I knew right away that every guy was wrong...no matter how cute, how rich, how interested...I knew it wasn't going to work...I didn't even give them a chance frankly. Why bother when you know he's not the one? I had enough guy friends after all.
So when I met my husband, it was kind of happenstance. I wasn't really looking and we had a few dances at a party...my table of friends kind of knew their table of friends so it was just casual. When I was leaving he asked for my number.
I guess because it was just so natural and he wasn't all over me all night...we had all jsut kind of sat around together talking, I thought why not.
I instantly trusted him and felt comfortable with him. By our third date I just new we were heading somewhere and before long we just were. Six months later we were engaged and five months later married and 17 years later here we still are.
I think it's the easy-going thing that did it for me...I hated that desperateness or lust and a million other things that other guys projected onto you...it just made me uneasy each and every time. So that's what did it for me! It was a "Matter of Trust" (ok so that's a Billy Joel song...sheesh...I got a song for just about everything! LOL)
Different strokes for different folks I would imagine.
2007-02-11 11:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What makes you think that there is anyone who is not your soul-mate?
Love and blessings Don
2007-02-12 12:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Dawn H,
I believe, that everyone has a soulmate.. in the sense that there's a person with a compatible set of personality attributes, that would be most suitable for your companionship....
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But, I also believe that it's not a specific person, and that you have to work on : "any relationship".. however "compatible" you are, or it's doomed to failure....
I don't believe, in looking for him/her.. when he/she is the one : you will "now"... ;)
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Thanks, for the question!;)
My regards! .. Good luck!:-)
Take care!
2007-02-11 12:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't believe in soul mates. For me, that's like religion or ghosts or something.
2007-02-11 11:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by trypanophobic34 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
soul mates are when you are dead its that we have all this energy and when we pass it either gets absorbed by someone else
2007-02-11 11:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by slp9209 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you start completing each others sentences.
2007-02-11 12:44:45 · answer #10 · answered by Sophist 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋