Ive been bisexual since 7th grade and ive had at least 4-5 girlfriends without my parents finding out and im so scared to do this but i need to come out to my parents before its too late. Im turning 18 in 4 months and i want to tell them before then,but everytime i go to talk to my mom about it she's either too busy or i change mind asap because im afraid of her response.
Help Me!!! Someone who has been in this situation and someone whose gone through this before i need advice.
How do i come out to my parents?
2007-02-11 11:39:39 · 11 answers · asked by kendi kenders 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well first of all any1 telling u to get help/counseling SCREW THEM. u don't need it, they just want u to have it,and that's not right.
as for telling ur parents the truth about u...well u should have came out w/it sooner. by this time they would have had the chance to get accustom to it. but any who just chill out and go for it man, they should care enough about u to accept u--the real u
good luck dude
2007-02-11 14:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by pulse 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Or on the other hand why worry about "coming out" to them,, its your personal business and nothing says you have to tell anyone, I am a Crossdresser since age 13, I never felt compelled to "come out" to anyone except various girlfriends and such along the way, I am mid 40's now and still trying to understand,
2007-02-11 21:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents aren't clueless. I bet they have an idea, whether they have excepted it or not. Just be honest with them. Does the person you sleep with (male or female) change the person you really are? I don't think so. Be brave. They will love you no matter who you choose to love.
2007-02-11 22:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by Judy B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One thing that ive learnt whilst telling my parents is that no matter what or who you are your parents will love you no matter what... its the way they are they cant just give up on you.
Try getting your mum alone one day even if you took her out say for a meal or just getting her alone in the house to talk to her about it if you cant face up to it then use technology (txt's)
Good luck dude :)
2007-02-11 19:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by Alex 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Focus on what you need to do and why you need to do it and don't think about what could happen afterwards. Just make sure that you've prepared for the consequences beforehand though. Good luck!
2007-02-11 23:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 17, and i'm Bi. I have come out to my family.
look, one thing, if they truly love you and they truly respect you, then they'd respect the choices you've made. Dont let their feelings ever bring you down. you are your own individual person, dont let your family get into your head.
good luck!
2007-02-11 19:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by Getoutalive 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know why you feel the need to tell them... hetrosexual kids don't tell their parents that they are having sexual relationships... so why do you feel the need to tell them?
2007-02-11 20:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
LISTEN I AM 2 NOW I NO I HAVENT CAME OUT BUT JUST TELL THEM AND IF THEY LOVE U THEY WOULD ACCEPT IT
2007-02-11 19:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by charyl c 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to them so they can get you the counseling that you need. You can still be cured.
Dont let the perverted homos drag you down into the bowels of filth that they live their lives in....there is still hope.
Tell your parents you want help, they will help you!
2007-02-11 20:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by marty_cohen 1 · 1⤊ 6⤋
Suck it up, sit them down and spill your guts.....oh and get straight...but if you do the latter you wont have to do the former
2007-02-11 19:45:08 · answer #10 · answered by gluckstadt_randy 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋