My wife and I have been seperated for almost two years and I have not yet been able to get back out there. I just have not wanted to do any dating until the court has finalized the divorce. Am I crazy for waiting? All of my friends seem to think so.
2007-02-11 10:59:34 · 11 answers · asked by unsirtnty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
nope, not crazy, just not anxious about it
2007-02-11 11:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are smart and right for waiting until the divorce is final. Once it is final and over with then when you are ready start dating slowly again. But not until you feel you are ready to. Dont let people rush or push you into it. Take your time and do things your way and at your own speed.
2007-02-11 11:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you're doing the miraculous factor...too many situations I see somebody getting a divorce and the subsequent day they are in yet another relaitonship because of the fact they could no longer be on my own. With that concept, they are playing on that individual being the miraculous one or hoping so. you have given your self time however to heal, and now after your divorce, you will finished and able to start relationship returned and giving somebody a huge gamble...
2016-10-01 23:47:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're saving yourself a lot of BS by waiting until the divorce is final.
2007-02-11 11:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I dont think you are crazy. You are honoring your commitment and promise to your wife (and until the divorce if finalized she IS still your wife). I think you are doing the right thing.
2007-02-11 11:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, your not crazy. I am in the same boat, and I feel that I need the closure before I can move on. Besides I would not want to give him anything he could even attempt to use against me either.
2007-02-11 11:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by AnGie0607 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its time to put the cup down and move on you say your wife but she you re ex wife its took me 4 years to find a great girl after my divorce and i going to get marry again and she so much younger she smile when i come home i wish you all the happyness wait and you shall find
2007-02-11 11:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it is normal to wait (but unusual in this day and age). play in your court by your rules when you are ready. don't let others dictate what you should do. good luck.
2007-02-11 11:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Screw what your friends thinks, you have the right to make your own decisions and as true friends should do, they should respect your decision and keep their thoughts and opinions to themselves.
2007-02-11 11:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be gun shy too. Dont EVER make the mistake of marrying again. You are a FOOL if you do.
2007-02-11 11:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋