ok i am turning 13 this year and have HUGE mood swings and my mom asks me whats wrong, i tell her i dont know, she wants me to cool it but i dont know how to tips?
i also have been looking at women the wrong way is there any way to stop?
2007-02-11 10:46:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ok i want to know ways to be more calm than i usually am in situations
2007-02-11 11:02:39 · update #1
what you are experiencing is perfectly normal. you are going to get through it. just hang in there. becoming a teenager is a hard thing for everyone. if would like to have someone to talk to about things that will give you good advice then don't hesitate to e-mail me at ctaylor-2003@yahoo.com even if you just want a listening ear, i am willing to help you through things if you need me. hope this helps. good luck
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2007-02-11 13:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is that what it is? i just entered the teen years myself and I thought the boys in my grade were actin' a li'l funny...
relax. everybody gets a li'l crazy about this time, I guess. by the way girls have way huger mood swings than boys so I would say just to try and be more patient with your mom. bite your tongue if you have to, just don't blow up in her face. go off somewhere private to do that. if you do have an explosion go up to her later and say something along the lines of, "I'm really sorry I acted that way before, mom. I just was a little stressed out, that's all..." remember all adults were teenagers too once, she'll understand.
2007-02-11 20:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by Off the Key of Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural. That's what happens when you get older. As far as "looking at women the wrong way", my advice is just try to be respectful. Hormones make men attracted to women (unless they are homosexual), so naturally you will look at women in some sexual manner but you can control this and remember to treat them with respect and not just as objects. I'm sure you'll do fine. Good luck mate.
2007-02-11 18:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by allistaken1 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem except I'm a girl. Just tell her puberty is coming and you just don't feel like yourself.
Guys look at women the wrong way its the starting point.
2007-02-11 19:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but it's ingorant to ask "is there anyway to stop"? Because there isn't. That's who you are, a teenager. All of us are like that. I'm 15 and I know how you feel, I get crushes on boys like every 2 weeks. And don't even get me started on my mood swings.
Join the club
2007-02-11 18:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by Alterna 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Relax. It's your hormones getting to your head, and it wont be easy to control it. I suggest you get away from it all every once in a while, find a hobby to get it off your mind, being in public will only make it worse. I'm sure there are better things to think about.
2007-02-11 21:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by qtpie16707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the changing hormone levels in your body... all part of puberty. I think the best way to deal with it is to acknowledge when you are being moody... and make the effort to change your attitude.
Good luck, being a teenager is hard!!
2007-02-11 18:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i am gonna guess u are a boy... so yea it all happens to everyone with time.... but what do u mean ur looking at women the wrong way??? i mean is that good or bad??? contact me at bandgeek342@yahoo.com if u need more advice or what ever
2007-02-11 21:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by ConFuZzled? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha
don't worry
being moody is normal
just take a deep breath when you get upset with someone and walk away from it. then try dealing with it once you've calmed down a bit again.
2007-02-11 18:51:00 · answer #9 · answered by chelsea L 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make friends with a girl. Just be friends. You will learn a lot!
2007-02-14 20:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋