2007-02-11 10:44:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First thing you need to do is to talk to your parents. It might be scary but you'll need their help. You need to see a doctor. Talk about your options. It might be a danger for you to carry a child at your age, with your body not being fully develop, it might not. You could consider adoption, there are lots of people out there who would love to have a baby. And you could consider keeping it. A lot of people might not like that but it is an option. You'd need a lot of help and support. And it wouldn't be easy. In a lot of ways maybe your child and you would be better off if you gave it away. But there are people out there who keep their child after having it at a young age. For that you'd need the help of your parents. And whoever the father of the child is, should be told that your pregnant. And his parent's should also be informed. Preferably by him. Because it takes two. You both are responsible for your actions and the results.
2007-02-11 11:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Quarter Fairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, i'm 27 and freaking about becoming a Mummy! I guess it depends on your beliefs, but you definitely need to think hard on how yours (and your baby's) future will be affected at this point in your life. I was pregnant when I was 19 and had a very bad boyfriend at the time so decided that an abortion was the right thing for me as I was not in the mental state to take on the responsibility of emotionally supporting a growing human being at that time, I could barely understand Life myself at that age! It is entirely up to you though, you may be very mature for your age, make a wonderful Mummy and have a very supportive family. Good luck with everything. :-)
2007-02-11 18:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by caseytopia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop abortion!
abortion is an immortal sin!
just try to imagine that the baby will be the next president or much better but if you're just gonna decide to kill your own baby..
you're gonna be such a pathetic person ever!
or at least put him/her in social service for adoption
you should confront your parents the truth because they know what to do and they are your parents you cant do nothing to hide what's happening to you. you need help from them
and be responsible enough to know the consequences of what are you doing...
2007-02-11 18:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Wenielyn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your mom about you being pregnant. If you don't feel comfortable talking to her on your own you may want to talk your counselor at school and they can help you talk to your parents about it. You need to talk to them and get to a doc to find out how far you are. I tell you it not going to be easy and I am sure you know that but make sure that you talk to the father as well. I wish you the best. I am currently pregnant so if you got question you can email me. I wish you the best
2007-02-11 18:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by firefighter bound 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an abortion, get on the pill and stay on it until you graduate from high school.
If an abortion is against your faith, then your faith should have some sort of adoption program set up. Get into it and adopt the kid out. You are too young to be raising a baby.
If your faith is against birth control pills, then do not screw around again.
2007-02-11 21:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by forgivebutdonotforget911 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your parents and the father. If you were old enough to have sex now you have to be old enough to take care of that baby. The best support that you can have right now is from your parents, they will react really upset but they are your parents and they will be ok after few days.
2007-02-11 18:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents first that your pregnant, and if you decide to keep the baby maybe your parents will be willing to help you out with the baby and what he/she needs.
2007-02-11 19:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by she2cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents if you are comfortable doing so. If the situation at home doesn't make you comfortable doing this, find a clinic that offers counselling services and discuss your options.
2007-02-11 18:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by Voodoo Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents and/or your doctor ASAP. Your body hasn't finished developing yet, so trying to keep the pregnancy will be painful and probably dangerous for you. You do have options, good luck!
2007-02-11 18:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i was 13 and pregnant i believe i would be having an abortion. This is what i would do if it were me.
2007-02-11 19:08:22 · answer #10 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋