Should I sleep with an escort for my first time with another woman?

Question

I just want sex, damnit! >:) I've just come to terms with my bisexuality, and I am in a relationship with a man. I told him about my feelings, and he was shocked, but I think he's come to terms with it. He gave me his blessings to 'do what you need to do' (his words) with another girl. I don't want to start a relationship with another girl, but I can't deny that I really, really to be intimate with one. At least once, and then who knows?

So... I have my bf's blessing. But is sleeping with an escort trashy, or risky? Have any of you girls been with one? At least with an escort, you get to pick out a pretty one, know what I mean? And plus, I know nothing about 'picking up' another girl say at a club, never having done that before!

Answer 1

I think that sex is best with someone you care for, or at least know for a little while, but if you just want sex, screw that! Lol.

My advice is to go to a high-quality escort service. And I'm talking about high-quality- nothing from a phone book or the back of a dirty magazine; seek out proper channels for women who do this as a career, not because they need money. Your best bet is a service run by a woman or women, rather than one run by a man or men. This is your best bet for safe, discreet, disease-free good fun. Don't get me wrong; it might cost a lot, but the girls are lovely and often very articulate and personable, skilled in what they do, and can make your first time wonderful.

Whatever you do, good luck! And be careful!

Answer 2

Personally I wouldn't do it with an escort. I think it would be risky. I would talk with one of your girlfriends. You never know, they might be having similar feelings as you. That way you can be comfortable and enjoy the experience.

Answer 3

Well, im totally against this, and think its a bad idea, its also a sin, not because its just bad, but because it is only going to hurt you more in the long run, and affect the deepest part of you

If your still going to do it anyway, i think an "escort" would also be a bad idea , as the Falsness of the event would only serve to give you a false and exhadurated perception of how it could be between two women who actually like each other.

I hope you make the right choice, not just the choice that 'feels' good.

listen to your conscience.

God Bless you.

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Answer 4

with all the disease in the world knowing an escort isn't any different from a prostitute do yo really want to risk it....id rather do it with one of my close girl friends them some stranger who i dont know anything about

Answer 5

Your boyfriend says it's alright to sleep with someone else? Wild. So, is escort a fancier word for prostitute?

Answer 6

there are alot of websites that have "casual encounter" dating. I suggest you find a local website and make an ad, Be sure to include it's your first time and what your interested in. (what type of woman you find attractive, std clean etc..) Also I'd try and include your boyfriend in the encounter if he is open to that.

Answer 7

MY SISTER WORKS AS AN ESCORT BUT WOMEN ARE NOT HER THING. REPUTABLE ONES - AGENCIES CHECK THE GIRLS AND SO CALLING ONE MAY BE YOUR BEST BET. I VE BEEN WITH A WOMAN FOR 10 YRS AND TRUST ME IT'S ******* GREAT. TRY TO CALL A GOOD AGENCY AND CHECK TO ASK IF THEY SEE IF THEIR CLEAN, THEN PICK A PRETTY ONE.

Answer 8

No, use http ://sexmatch-book.com

Answer 9

Escort for sure. They won't be judgmental, won't mind showing you the ropes, tricks, techniques, won't be any strings attached, no gossip later, and no anxiety.

Answer 10

absolutely not...women should never have to pay for sex...don't just jump right into having sex just to have it...grab someone who would be comfortable going to a lesbian bar and start making some friends...maybe you'll hit it off with someone eventually