I got this girl pregnant and im only 15 what do i do?

Answer 1

Tell your parents.

Answer 2

Oh my gosh buddy you need to get your morals and your head checked, seriously! I'm the same age as you and I cannot believe you are talking like this! How embarressing to my generation!!
Look, man, if you're old enough to have sex with someone you darn well better be old enough to father the child you make with that someone! That baby is 50% hers and 50% yours. Since she opted to keep the baby instead of giving her up for adoption, so, you MUST do your part and provide, protect, love and care for this baby.

You probably should go spend some one-on-one time with the baby, or with your girlfriend and the baby for a little while. Babies cry, they always need, but they can bring the most joy to your life!!
I didn't want to be a mom my entire life until I met a man I love with all my heart and all he wanted to be was a good father. We got married and have two BEAUTIFUL children together. Having your OWN child is sooo very different than other people's kids!

Please rethink what you're doing. It's very wrong and crooked. You are SO LUCKY to have a girl that WANTS you to be a part of your baby's life!!! Take advantage of this because later down the road you will regret it more than life can tell you! That's a promise mister. The BEST thing you could do for this baby was love it's mother and marry her and then take responsibility for what you did.
Consequences always follow actions and this is your consequence. Grin and bear it and you will learn to love this child more than life itself and it will bring you more joy than you can even comprehend at this time. I promise you that. Take a step out into the dark. It's the only way we can grow.

Being a parent is scary getting started, but once you get started it's the greatest thing a person can do in this life. Nothing else matters as much as being a real parent.

Now, go do the right thing.

-first of all you should of thought about it before you put your baby making thing in her. -

second of all- seeing how the baby is not here yet and you don't want to have anything to do with the mother.....means you are pretty much a low life.

so to answer your question sign away your parental rights...that will allow this lady to move on with her life and find someone who is willing to take care of her and HER child since you dont want to

and you wont have to pay child support but will also have NO right to seeing THIS child

good luck to you in the future and next time think twice

Answer 3

That sucks! Be Careful from now on!! What do you think you should do? Do you want to have the responsiblities of a father at 15?? How does the girl feel about this? Does she want to have the baby? Talk with the girl over this because this is very serious!!! Good Luck!

Answer 4

The long answer? You can support her by telling her how important it is for her to continue her studies, either at home or in traditional high school. You, yourself, should stay in school and graduate. By the time you are both finished with high school the baby should be about what, 1 1/2? Perfect for you two to go to college and get into a residential dorm at a college and you and her can take college courses. By the time the baby is about 5 you two should both have degrees. Either one of you or both of you will be able to get a good job. You are now ready to homeschool or send your child to traditional school. When the child is old enough remember your childhood, make sure to talk to them about the struggles that you have went through and hope that they make different choices. Or for the easy answer. Love the baby.

Answer 5

Find out what the girl wants to do and make a decision together. Then both go to each set of parents together and tell them. Hopefully they will be understanding and help you through this. I got pregnant when I was 17 and the guy took off so I was very lucky to have my parents help - you'll need it. Good luck.

Answer 6

well u r the one who got her pregnant in the first place so u r the one who is gonna have to b responsible now and tell ur parents. Talk to the girl and ask her if she wants to keep the baby and hope that she doesn't cuz then u have to b the dad and b responsible. U might want to think bout adaption if she wants to keep it. That way u can still c the child once in a while and still have a life cuz ur young yet.

Answer 7

You need to talk to your parent/s and tell them the situation. You need to do this soon, and your parent/s will be able to advise with what you will need to do, since you have not made the best choice that is going to effect you the rest of your life. If the girl decides to keep the baby, it will be your responsibly to be a father whether you are prepared to or not. You should take parenting classes so that you will know how to share the responsibility with the mother of your child. It takes two parents to rear a child.

Answer 8

I would suggest that first you pray and ask GOD to forgive you and tell.HIM you don't know what to do, ask Him to guide you ,then ask your parents to forgive you for the position you have put them in and ask them to help you do the right thing by helping you to be responsible for what you have done. Then shock this whole world by showing them what a real man is. You will soon be a father and a man. Remember the Bible says," I can do all things through CHRIST JESUS who strengthens me." You are not alone, I and others will be praying with you and if you would like to contact me to talk with then feel free I'm here for you. A big brother. Oh! by the way, I'm an old Hippie.

Answer 9

First you must tell both of your parents. No matter how hard it is to do you must do it. Then you'll have to figure out how to support the baby and hopefully you have parents that will help you out. Whatever you do don't get an abortion. It is murder!! You guys should look into adoption. There are a lot of people out there wanting a child and would make wonderful parents.

Answer 10

First of all talk to your parents, and then both of you call a pregnancy help clinic in your area, they can help you with her pregnancy and the concerns both of you have. Be there for her. Look at a adoption and not abortion- I know this is a very hard time for you. I counsel of a pregnancy help clinic in my area, and see many young girls whose bfs do not care what happens, I am so glad to see that you do, since you asked this question. Take care, and know that I will be praying for you and your girl friend.

Answer 11

The same thing happened to my cousin. He grew up, accepted the consequences of his choice to have sex outside of marriage and he got a job. His little boy is now four years old and is the light of his life!

My advice to you is to get a job and deal with the consequences of your actions. Whatever you do don't murder the innocent human life that will be your son or daughter. You will never be able to get him/her back but if you try hard enough you *and your child* can have a good life.