2007-02-11 10:12:21 · 29 answers · asked by Aub 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I personally believe you lose your virginity when you have sex with someone. Whether that involves oral, regular intercourse or some other form of penetration. With lesbians, you can do all. So I guess you'd lose your virginity when you have your first sexual experience whether it be with another girl or guy.
2007-02-11 10:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Although I'm not a lesbian myself. I do know that you can loose it by the other girl wearing or using a device that is made to look like a male genitalis on the other girl. I don't want to go into to much detail but I hope you get my drift.
2007-02-11 18:20:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, most lesbians i know have tried sex with a man at least once. A lot of us try to "not be gay". It's unfortunate that we feel the need to do this. But, let's face it, most of society looks down on gay/lesbian people. And, most of us just want to feel like we are accepted.
2007-02-11 18:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by TheOriginalSin♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am taking a sexuality course in college right now, and we're discussing all of this...and you can't really define as having sex to one general term, its really broad and it depends from person to person...some people think penile-vaginal sex is the only one that counts, but what if you are a lesbian as you have said, there is NOT ONE PENIS involved...so...i think if you and your partner both agree that you had sex, and both felt awesome and i guess even had an orgasm or two, then i would personally consider it as sex, and i guess on those terms you have lost your virginity, because you're not pure i guess...because...idk...its all up to your personal feelings about it...i hope this helps, but i like this question a lot...good one!
2007-02-11 18:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Virginity is a construct born of a worldview that values women only in relation to male power and male desire.
Personally, I reject the concept, but if you are hellbent on defining a virginity or loss thereof for yourself, I would suggest you select your first sexual experience as such.
If you have had sex with a woman, you have had sex.
2007-02-13 02:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by Salek 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well it depends on what you mean by virginity....by breaking the hymen then virginity is lost and most women break that when they are young. or sex is losing you virginity and as a lesbian, having sex is losing your virginity.....
2007-02-11 18:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel P 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your definition of virginity.
is oral sex really sex? anal?
is virginity based on the hymen? can you lose your virginity to a tampon?
is anything silimar to a phallus really the same as a penis?
websters says no a lesbian can't loose their virginity.
2007-02-11 18:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don’t need to experience penetration to lose your virginity. Some people engage in fondling, anal sex, oral sex, etc. and still consider themselves virgins because they have not engaged in vaginal penetration and thus, kept their technical virginity. Personally, I think this is absurd. If you ever engage in any kind of sex, you lose your virginity.
2007-02-11 18:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by bahhumbug07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i guess they would be virgins.. i personally dont consider a viberator looseing your virginity
2007-02-11 18:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by peeps you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that your first sexual experience is when you lose your virginity.
If you are speaking in technical terms--then that is also possible in lesbian sex.
2007-02-11 18:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋