Well, I recently broke up with my boyfriend because he moved so far away. He moved to the other side of the country. It's so far away, but we decided to remain friends. We infact talk alot, and I have feelings for him still. I found out not long ago, that he is very much in love with me aswell. Even though I would love to go back with him, it's not like I can ever visit him. (I'm still in high school) And I'm positive that there are girls that are after him where he lives. So..my question is...how can I move on from him? I really don't want to, but it looks like there is no other way. What do you think? Is there a way to make it work, or how can I move on?H
2007-02-11 09:55:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Moving on is one of the hardest things you will learn to do in life.If this is what you have to do, then you need to make it as easy as possible. Only time heals a broken heart. Take everything you have that he gave you or that reminds you of him and put it in a box and store it somewhere hard to get to, like back of closet,basement or garage. Having daily reminders only drag out the hurt. When you think about him, force yourself to think about something else that is important like a big test coming up. spend as much time with other people, your friends or family. Being alone makes it hard to keep from your thoughts.Think posititive! Things happen for a reason, he must not have been the one for you, there is another just around the corner, Good luck!
2007-02-12 01:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by Broadgonebiker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you trust each other, a long distance relationship might be workable. They usually aren't because one or the other person doubts the other, even just the slightest bit. And that gets worse. But I would say if you want to, its worth a try. I have a long distance relationship, although its not a romantic one, its a very close one. The more the two of you talk, the better the chances of it working.
2007-02-11 10:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by wonderer152 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is in love with you as much as you are with him then there shouldn't be a problem he can come up and visit you. Maybe being the fact u r still in H.S. its better to move on u can still have feelings for him but don't hold on to him. Find some1 else but DO NOT RUSH INTO NOTHING.
Hope that helped!
2007-02-11 10:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by HatersEnvyMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋