im gay but i want to like ladies, i don't want to be gay but that is how i feel. i have never had a boy/girl friend but i want to. please help me. Thanks
2007-02-11 09:48:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You can't wish yourself to have blonde hair or blue eyes. It just is. Be at peace with who you are, that would make me happy.
2007-02-11 10:07:56 · answer #1 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear your struggle. While I have never had this problem, I am openly and proudly me, it is a problem that many face, not just you. You just have to recognize who you are and what makes you happy, and not listen to what negative things other people may have to say about it. If you are truly gay, you will never love the ladies as more than friends. Once you accept that, you will be able to move on and have a happy life.
Good luck to you!
2007-02-11 18:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by IamBatman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess I'm wondering why you're fighting yourself. Is it your parents, religion, etc?
Why not try it out with a prostitute to see how you'll feel with a woman. This way you're not misleading anyone. You'd be paying to experiment.
It sounds like you are not really ready to be in a relationship regardless of the gender choice.
Only you can decide what's best for you. Be true to yourself.
2007-02-11 17:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by ♣Hey jude♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are suffering from internalized homophobia. That's disgusting. You should be proud of being gay. Being gay is a blessing. It makes you aware of other minorities' struggle for equal rights.
2007-02-11 17:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can find info on www.pureintimacy.org., http://exodus.to, family.org, or lovewonout.com. I think those sites are very helpful. You are not alone in your struggle; there are plenty of others, who are going what you're going through. There are lots of ex-gays too. Best wishes!
2007-02-11 18:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by Cdn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ashould not be gay God forbids it!! It's in Ex.2
2007-02-11 20:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by Daddiez Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not gay in sense... it just you attitude toward women! have postive attitude toward them , appreciate them...make them laught, be nice and you got them! women are soft minded and sympathetic
2007-02-11 18:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by wisdom king 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude ur probably bi
have u thought of that
2007-02-11 22:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by pulse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem send me the girls.
2007-02-11 17:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it you expect anyone here to do?
2007-02-11 18:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋