i read that women when they marry will marry for money and a secure life and do not have to be in love?

Answer 1

Many women are that way, but not all. I know women that did and even though they have everything they want they shortly become unhappy because they dont really love their husband or they don't get enough time with their husband if they do start to love them. I married for love, we aren't rich but we make it and we're happy. So there are women out there that marry for love.

Answer 2

That's not always the truth. I was working when I met my husband (he was my supervisor). I had my own apartment, my own bank accounts, etc.

I didn't need to get married for money or security.

My marrried and unmarried sisters were the same. They worked, made great money, had their own places, their own cars (I couldn't drive very well before I got married, thefore I didn't need a car), and everything else they needed.

But then, we were taught to always have our own, and to provide for ourselves.

So while I love my husband dearly, I did not marry him for his money or for the 'security' married life might offer. I married because he was the one for me and I was the one for him.

I am sure that there are women who do marry for money and security, but they aren't usually happy. Those are superficial reasons to marry. What happens when the money (& security) are gone? He loses his job and it takes a year or two (or more) to find another... or he has an accident and can't work anymore? The marriage is sunk, and ends in divorce.

If a man is a good husband, he will provide for his family, and take care of their needs. But if he can't afford a gift for my birthday, Why should I call it quits? Why put a price tag on a relationship?

The only reason to marry is for love.

My husband has provided for his family, and surprised me with both inexpensive gifts and expensive. I have done the same for him.

I have been married for nearly 25 years.

Hope this helps!

Answer 3

Women marry for security and the more money a man has the more security. You can fall in love with a man that has money because they are good to you , they buy the things in life you want and need. You meet a man with money and he always has power like owning companies , ranches , etc. their usually older men. Their lives are already planned and taken care of and to be honest a older man has the best sex in the world, they are more experienced. I'm not talking about 80 year old men . I'm not talking one foot in the grave and one on banana peeling, men in their late forties or fifties. Women like power and you can fall in love with a powerful man, more than a worker. I just don't date young men and I never have, I like older men. Their sex is out of this world, something you only dream about. In high school, I always dated men in college our out of college. Who wants a man to tell you let's pool our money and get a Pizza, there no way, I would even think about that, there is no way I'd ever return with that little pizza, I ring the doorbell put in front and high tail it out of that situation..I just don't like a poor man, they don't turn me on. call it gold digger if you want , I call it a smart woman.
I would rather be a rich man's sweetheart than a poor man's slave

Answer 4

No thats so not true. Women have hearts. Love is the most important thing to have in a relationship and when getting married. I'm speaking for all the women I know, If a guy proposed to me, the first thing to enter my mind wouldn't be the size of his bank balance. Obviously, it's important for my potential husband to be responsible, mature and hardworking or marriage wouldn't be the most successful but love, devotion, trust, respect and sex life rate highest on the list of marriage musts.

Answer 5

This is not always true but does explain why some of these rich guys end up in divorce court alot. There are also guys who will marry for the same reason. This is why pre nuptials came into existence to protect the rich.

Answer 6

I will marry for money the next time. Love didnt get me anywhere but hurt.
I can love a man who gives me everything....lol Or at least i can say that i do. Or maybe i can learn to love him over time. I can prolly do that and will prolly gain a little more everytime he hands over his credit card. Gotta love that~

Answer 7

Yes, it's true, but not ALL women do!

Of course it goes without saying that men have been known to do the very same thing.

Answer 8

I myself when i get married it will be for love.
**** the money that wont buy you happiness.

Answer 9

Those are called "gold diggers". You can screen those out when you are dating by taking them on some cheap dates and not buying them expensive presents.

Answer 10

When you marry for money...you will earn every penny of it!!!