We are having huge problems. We have quintuplets. And they aren't going to bed. We put them each in their own room. They all go to bed. The one wakes up. My wife goes to take care of it. Then while she is taking care of it the toher one starts to cry. So I get up and start to take care of the other one. They both finally go to bed and then about 20 minutes later the other one starts to cry. How do you get them to sleep nicely and not cry in the middle of the night. It's getting harder and harder everyday. They are only like 2 weeks old.
2007-02-11 09:45:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Get a big room, and put them all in that room. Then, you can just walk over to them if they have a problem right after another one does. It will be easier then having to run from room to room. Consult helpers you trust, like a friend or a family member to help on certain days of the week. But, you also need to spend time with your baby. Put a clock in the room they are in. I know sounds weird, but the tick-tocking soothes some babies. Do you only have one day off work? Work with your boss to get another day off if needed. Mondays are good to have the day off. So, i pray you have a good life with these babies, and they love you already, beleive me.
2007-02-11 11:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At two weeks, most babies are up at least twice every night. With quints, I think you need to enlist some help (a family member, maybe?). In fact, I'm surprised people haven't offered, with how rare quints are.
Establishing a routine right now isn't easy, but it might help in the long run. The trick is that you'll have to divide up the babies into 'shifts': first shift (2-3 babies) and second shift (2-3 babies). The first shift should be about a half-hour ahead than the second shift on the schedule. For convenience's sake, have each shift in one bedroom--the babies will have each other's company, and the two of you won't be running from room to room to soothe each one. This way, you'll at least be able to predict when the babies will wake up. There is simply no way two people can tackle five babies all at once without sacrificing something, and sleep and sanity are pretty important.
2007-02-11 10:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by shoujomaniac101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Best Daddy! Wow!! What a handful! And I thought I had MINE full with twins!!!!!
Are you feeding them all at the same time? I know that we made sure that we fed them both at the same time since I KNEW that once I was done with one, I'd have to start all over again for the other and so this worked very well. It might not be so easy for you having so many to take care of at one time.
I actually laid my two on the couch side by side and held the bottles.
I'm wondering if you can use a body pillow or 2 on the floor with a blanket and put them on there for "family feeding frenzy!" LOL
It would take time to work out the kinks (if your not already doing this...I certinly can't imagine you 2 doing this without outside help!) Once thier fed and changed, they should be okay for at least 3-4 hours. And remember, they won't be like this forever....things will get easier once you fall into a routine. That is SO important to have a routine!!
I hope you get at least a few zzzzzz's. And don;t forget to let each other have a break so you don't go crazy and take things out on each other. Help is vital at this point, I'm sure. Please don't feel guilty for asking for time to yourself. You'll need all the rest you can get!!!
Good Luck and CONGRATS ON THOSE BABIES!!!!!!!
2007-02-11 10:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that multiples need to sleep in the same bed. They are so used to being together, they sleep better that way as well. They will also sleep better WITH mommy. They will be comforted by her breathing and heartbeat.
That being said, they are newborns! They can't sleep all night through for their own health. They need to eat at least 2-3 times a night. Plus they were probably premies so they are even more dependent on eating regularly.
The bad news is that they aren't going to sleep through the night for a few months or so (and even then, they might not all sleep through). I would call Grandma or Auntie or someone to come help. That way you guys can get a little more sleep during the day and then you won't be so frustrated at night. But sorry to say, it isn't just going to end.
2007-02-11 10:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Babies wake up through the night to have a bottle because they can't hold more that four or five ounces at a time. If yours were smaller, they can eat even less.
They WILL wake up during the night for a feeding and changing. That's normal.
If you have a home that allows separate bedrooms for each child, you can afford help. Hire a couple of women to take turns coming in at night to get up with them so you and their mom can rest for the days. NOW.
Good luck and God bless you and your entire family.
2007-02-11 10:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by nancy jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm seeing as they are only 2 weeks old I think it is going to take you awhile to get them on a regular schedule. But if it were me i'd have them all sleeping in the same room until they get a little older. Maybe they are lonely for each other, they were all together for at least 7 to 8 months, right?
2007-02-11 09:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by shorty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever heard the saying "time is all you need"?? they are 2 weeks old... it's going to take a few weeks for them to start sleeping during the middle of the night... maybe longer. and b/c there's more of them, they probably will cry at different times, they are completely different people you know. Just give them time.
2007-02-11 09:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Awsome, you might as well get a two gallon coffee maker. occasionally like once a week give all four of them a proper dose of infants tylenol right before you go to bed and that will almost ensure you a 4 hour rest period
2007-02-11 09:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by ptcruisher2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most babies wake up during the night at the begining. Give it some time and they should get on a better schedule. Good luck.
2007-02-11 10:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by Naru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrap them up tight(swaddle). also do you give them dummys. it helps us alot we only give her a dummy at night then when she is off to sleep before we go to bed we take the dummy out carefully as she is easily woken now. dont believe in dummys all the time it just for helpin to sleep and teething soother. i know i have 1 baby so it must be hard work for yous, my little one can be cross at times. my heart goes out to yous. good luck
2007-02-11 10:30:38 · answer #10 · answered by sharon b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋