2007-02-11 09:37:08 · 8 answers · asked by bahhumbug07 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes. There are many gay men who find women attractive and even go to bed with them occasionally. There are many straight men who find other men attractive and even go to bed with them occasionaly. I am gay but I have slept with six or seven women. Most people have a preference for one sex over the other but many people are flexible enough to try different things.
If you label yourself gay, that does not mean you can't sleep with women and similarly, labelling yourself straight does not mean you can't sleep with men. Sleeping with both sexes does not make you bisexual either. You are what you consider yourself to be, no-one else can label you.
2007-02-11 09:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by tentofield 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the late 40's/early 50's Alfred C. Kinsey conducted a study of the human sexual behavior. He came up with the Kinsey Scale, a way to categorize people's sexuality. The Kinsey scale ranked sexual behavior from 0 to 6, with 0 being completely heterosexual and 6 completely homosexual. A 1 was considered predominantly heterosexual and only incidentally homosexual, a 2 mostly heterosexual and more than incidentally homosexual, a 3 equally homosexual and heterosexual, and so on. An additional category X was created for those who experienced no sexual desire.
Kinsey himself avoided and disapproved of using terms like homosexual or heterosexual to describe individuals, asserting that sexuality is prone to change over time, and that sexual behavior can be understood both as physical contact as well as purely psychic phenomena (desire, sexual attraction, fantasy).
So a supposedly gay man could feel sexually attracted for a women. In which case that man could be a 3 or a 4 on the Kinsey scale.
2007-02-11 09:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ziggy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is that if the majority of people are honest sexuality does not fit into a neat 'gay' or 'straight' box, but somewhere in between. It is quite often about 'comfort zones' we don't tend to like things we can not easily define, so shy away from it! Therefore the short answer is Yes i fit alot of the definiton of a gay man, but I can still find the opposite sex attractive, but to the point of sleeping with them? Not yet!
2007-02-11 10:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As my selection is to be gay,I do discover some women folk captivating and that i entertain particular deviant fantasies each and every so often.even though it would not replace my possibilities.it relatively is a organic instinctive reaction and that i in no way supress something like that.That woman will ought to be a skinny tomboy form to seize my eye,yet they do exist.Ha!Ha!Dont be at a loss for words,purely roll with what comes needless to say.Dont conceal emotions or thoughts.include them as a results of fact the excellent presents we are given. Hugs!
2016-12-17 14:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, they don't have sexual attractions.
a gay man can say that a woman is beautiful, because based on cultural norms she is good-looking. but a straight female can alos look at that woman and say she is good looking, so even without sexual attraction a person can compliment another and notice that they are attractive
2007-02-11 10:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, hence the term 'gay'.
2007-02-11 10:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, often..but not enough to warrant me wanting to have sex with them..or not attraction of the same type....
2007-02-11 09:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are bisexual men, just like there are bisexual women.
2007-02-11 09:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋