i cheated on him last night but it wasnt my idea, is it bad that my friend fingered me? should i tell him soon or wait a while? advice would really help me.
2007-02-11 09:25:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my friend and i are just friends but he has a girfriend too and she is one of my bestfriends i thought about telling her because she is a really understanding person but i dont think i should tell her
2007-02-11 09:42:03 · update #1
Would you want him to tell you if he cheated? Or would you want him to keep to himself? Whatever you feel you should go with. But if I were you, I would tell him. He might respect your honesty. Or on the other hand, don't do it again. If you don't do it again, then you don't have to tell him.
2007-02-11 09:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by flyychyc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like your bf that you cheated on then you should tell him if you really love himbecasue one you shouldnt have even gone out with the other guy if you have one in the first place becasue that is not smart. but does the guy that you went out with last night know that you had a nother boyfriend because if he did and then he said oh thats ok just dont tell him because if you were to stay with that guy he would keep alot of things from you asnd he would be really weird and crazy
2007-02-11 17:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by Monica I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him now. If you plan to tell him at all, it will at least let him know that you really are trustworthy. The longer you wait, the bigger the chance will be for him to lose trust in you. If you don't tell him and he finds out, then you'll have wasted all this time in a dead-end relationship.
2007-02-11 17:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two, you slut, you let him in your pants to finger you. Tell him so he can find somebody that will be faithful to him. If you are going to let other people in your pants you should put up a ho sign and not have a boyfriend and just do your thing that's okay ,but cheating on somebody who trusts you is just being dishonest!
2007-02-11 17:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Damn girl, shame on you! It wasn't your idea, but you followed along. Yes, you should tell him. You did him wrong, and now you must have balls to confromt him about it. Be honest with him. Don't wait! Maybe you have an opportunity to save your relationship. Good Luck!
2007-02-11 17:32:38 · answer #5 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him ASAP, honesty is 1 of the keys to a good relationship, and communication is to...SO communicate to you boyfriend, and he'll hopefully appreciate u for ur honesty
2007-02-11 17:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by I LOVE HIM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess only tell him, if he brings up honset. or get together, and say, "i have something to say ", " umm, we promised 2 be honest to eachother so, i umm, slpet with someone else last night, now dont get mad or anything, it wasnt worth anything, it didnt mean anything, it all just happned"......say something like that. but hey, what do i know, im 14. so yeah...
2007-02-11 17:29:41 · answer #7 · answered by deleted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it would be best for him to know. But when you tell him, tell him the truth and tell him it was not your idea, but most of all tell him why you did it.
2007-02-11 18:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by KaylaDawn<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WASN'T YOUR IDEA? GROW UP. YOU DID IT AND THE DUDE DIDN'T DO IT TO HIMSELF. WHAT MADE YOU CHEAT? IF THE GUY ISN'T TELLING AND YOU THINK HIM NOT IMPORTANT THEN SHUT UP AND NEVER DO IT AGAIN. IF YOUR BOYFRIEND AND YOU AREN'T ABOUT GETTING ALONG AND STICKING TOGETHER THEN TELL HIM AND LEAVE.
2007-02-11 17:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn this now...YOU DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT TELL UR BOYFRIEND. AND DO NOT TELL ANYONE ELSE FOR THAT MATTER. TAKE IT TO THE GRAVE. if u feel like u want to mess around or date other people then tell him that but admitting to infidelities it a recipe for disaster.
2007-02-11 17:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋