I am really confusd as to who I am, I was raped 2 times in childhood by 2 males at age 12, then i developed a liking for males after that I developed a liking for straight porn. Then I switched back to gay porno now I am turned on by straight porno and i develope a feeling of love for girls but not to have sex with them, however I am really turned on by lesbians in movies, and especially the sight of vagina, but i mostly remain flaccid at the sight of girls in bikinis however i am sure i would get turned on by a naked girl... I am really confused rite now as 2 what my orientation is ?
2007-02-11 09:09:31 · 4 answers · asked by hamid s 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I would say confused is a good word to answer that question.
Don't worry about if your strait or gay if you like women or men. Some day you'll meet an individual who makes you happy and horney, and they're gender doesn't matter.
2007-02-11 11:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by Rhuby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Goodness. You've had a tough time.
Here's my advice: let's forget about the fact that you were raped; I understand that it's a integral part of your identity, and not something you can just slough off, but there are many people who were raped but don't have it affect their sexual orientation. Secondly, let's forget what kind of porn you watch. Yes, porn can be an indicator of your sexuality (I wouldn't expect a straight man to constantly watch gay porn, for instance), but I know lots of people who are 100% gay or 100% straight but can enjoy different types of porn nonetheless.
What you really need to look at is who you can have sex with. Can you imagine yourself having a sexually satisfying experience with a woman in the future? How about with a man? If it's both, you're bisexual; if it's one or the other, you're gay or straight.
I know that probably doesn't help but, but all you can do is let things continue on and try to figure out who turns you on and who you want to have sex with.
Good luck.
2007-02-11 10:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
from what i have you gathered yes you somewhat confused but I would say with all due respect that you do need to focus on one sex only if it is a guy or a female. if in the future you decided to become either a lesbian or bisexual then I will be the first one to back you up because all I want is that everybody to be happy one way or another.
2007-02-11 10:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by soar_2307 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend that you ponder this for a while because I will guess that you have to bisexual that is it you like both women and men alike.
2007-02-11 10:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by conde_c_b 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋