I need some adivce badly. I am getting married in May.07, I have already started trying to get pregnant. My sister is telling me that this is a bad idea and to wait. now I'm second guessing my decision. I would be 3 months pregnant for my wedding if i got pregnant now. Do you think I will be showing that early on? Would anyone notice on my wedding day that i would be pregnant??? Should I just wait?
2007-02-11 09:06:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
if you have to ask that question you should probably wait quite awhile before having children
2007-02-11 09:11:44 · answer #1 · answered by cage1854 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No it's not bad. Your dress will fit but don't try too soon because you could get pregnant that fast and then you wouldn't be able to fit in your wedding dress. I would wait at least a month before the wedding before you start trying. Your tummy would still be small and not showing. I was told I start showing at 18 weeks because I'm thin. Some show earlier than that but you show sooner when you have already had kids, even if they had a still born or had a baby died at birth. I would start trying in early March. But use protection till then.
2016-03-29 02:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you aren't showing (which you may be) people aren't stupid and can add 1 and 2 and know that your baby which didn't look premature was concieved before the wedding. If it's only a few months away you should wait. I know you're not getting pregnant for your family but it's just easier to avoid having to explain your reasoning to your family. Plus your dress may not fit if you are showing or how about morning sickness on your honeymoon. Good Luck on the Wedding and I hope you choose to wait until your honeymoon to try, wouldn't that be more romantic anyways, a great story you can tell your son or daughter one day!
2007-02-11 09:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by Bgus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do what your heart tells you. Some people develop a lot different in every pregnancy. I know I am 3 months and have already gained 15 lbs. A lot of people ask me if I'm having twins, or they don't believe I am only 3 months. That also depends on the way your body is built. Personally I would wait about a month before the wedding, but like I said before use your heart, and it will guide you.
2007-02-11 09:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by Tammy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a bad idea for several reasons:
1. You could have morning sickness (which lasts all day) and be miserable at your wedding AND during your honeymoon.
2. You could miscarry and become depressed.
3. You may start getting thicker in the waist and that won't look good.
4. One of you may decide not to go through with the wedding.
5. Don't start your marriage pregnant!!! Allow the two of you to have a few months (at least) getting settled before getting pregnant.
2007-02-11 09:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well first of all it's your choice to get pregnant or not. If you choose to get pregnant before your wedding day then so be it! You may be showing at 3 months, but then again you may not. I know a few people that were pregnant when they got married. IT's all up to you! So what if you were showing on your wedding day! You'd have that extra glow to you! GOOD LUCK!!
2007-02-11 09:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by ♥xvioletx1882♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2015-01-24 08:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you would be showing much at all. However, not everyone shows at the same time, so you don't know how much you would be showing if you did. It usually takes a while to get pregnant, so if you start trying now, you may not get pregnant until a year from now. I'd say keep trying because you never know how long its gonna take!
2007-02-11 09:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that anyone would notice, but how long have you been with this man, is it something that you both want, a baby makes things so much more complicated...If it were me I'd just try married life first before making such a big decision...you want to enjoy the first year or so of your marriage not be tied down...don't get me wrong it's a wonderful thing to be tied down to lol but i think you should really think it over and talk it over with your soon to be hubby
2007-02-11 09:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by Christy B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There will probably be some weight gain by that time, and while you might not be showing, you will probably already have changes in the way your weight is placed. It would make it very hard for whoever is doing the alterations on your wedding gown.
2007-02-11 09:14:01 · answer #10 · answered by FlyChicc420 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're happy with the idea, then go ahead. But remember, if you're going to have a traditional wedding with the white dress and all, the dress is usually made on-demand, so, if your size changes, it would be difficult to make it in advance.
But i think the people who make them, should know how to hide a little your belly...
So, go ahead.
2007-02-11 09:17:55 · answer #11 · answered by Pedro 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋