Do I really need a woman to complete me?

Question

I don't think so anymore. And for those of you who say I can't get laid....believe me, I have had tons of women and been in quite a few relationships for the last 20 years. And don't answer this with, OH, you just haven't found the right one yet"....That really gets under my skin. Seriously...I'm asking those who can relate to me...Women in general seem not to be worth the time effort and money it requires to keep them happy.....and the sex issue is no big deal. I have had lots and lots of sex ...I feel I can achieve the same if not better just masturbating....Yea, maybe I am selfish in thinking this way but I really don't see the attraction of marriage, kids, or even relationship with a woman to fullfill my life anymore.

The ones who relate to me answer...the rest of you, move on.....

no, I'm not depressed.

and thanks to those that can relate to me. Ladies, I'm actually quite pleased that you relate and didn't bash me for my point of view.

Answer 1

No, you don't. In fact, you sound pretty complete already.

Answer 2

No, you don't need a woman to complete you. If you feel incomplete, then, obviously you're looking for that missing piece to the puzzle. Whatever that may be, once it's found, the woman and family paradigm may take on a new appeal. These things should not be counted upon to complete a person. They work best when they can be wholly appreciated by a complete person.
I can understand the rationale of "I'd rather be alone than be with someone who doesn't get me" idea. I've quoted it myself, more than once. The real irony is that when I was finally resolved to stop looking, I found it.
So, yes, by all means, go live your life on your terms. You may just find what you're not looking for, and , really, there are worse things.

Answer 3

Dont ask us if u need someone to complete u. You are complete it sounds like to me. You know exactly what you want, and even more so u know exactly what u DONT want.
There is nothing wrong with remaining single. Sometimes marriage and kids arent for everyone. I know i am definately contemplating remaining single and raising my child on my own. I honestly think i would be better off, because like u, i dont need a man to complete me. I know exactly who i am and what i am about. Its not selfish, its actually unselfish i think.
People are different. I have friends who just cant handle being alone. I have done it for the past 6 years and although i have been in relationships, i didnt feel like i needed to marry. I am pregnant, so like u, i enjoyed a sex life, but my status is currently single. I am not afraid to be single. Actually, i kinda like the fact the i dont have to worry about rushing home to cook supper or make sure my guy has clean clothes for work tomorrow. I worry about me and do things on my own time. Its actually quite nice.
So, dont feel selfish, do what makes u happy.
Good luck.

Answer 4

you don't! and i understand how you feel. i think we all born with different personalities, preferences and views of relationships. marriage and relationship is just a common practice for people to build a family they can rely on and fall back to. but it's not for everyone. and those who don't fit into that picture have a more difficult time fitting in or explaining to others why we act differently and choose differently. to be frank, it's easy for most of people just to do what others expect than creating their own path. no one in the world can complete anyone. it takes compromises and adjustment. some wanted and some unwanted. and if you haven't found something like that, it's still normal. just enjoy your life to the fulliest and ignore what others think. we cannot complete others while we don't complete ourselves first!

Answer 5

You r depressed and very selfish...Woman don't need money, time & effort to keep them happy. They need that connection & bond. If you ever found that... it would not be effort for you... it would be happiness for both of you...........

Answer 6

What you need is a chick with a dick.