Confidence definitely plays a role in one's friendships. If your quiet then you have a hard time expressing yourself and your confidence. If "being yourself" is more quiet, then how do you gain and show your confidence so people will want to be around you more?
2007-02-11 08:31:30 · 11 answers · asked by zander1331 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Quiet does not have to be silent. It is more effective to say something intelligent and strong only when you have something to say than it is to talk constantly with little value. Use your quiet time to craft what it is you want to say in a compelling way and then say it. Then be quiet again. It is a well-known fact that this sort of behavior commands respect. And, when you are being quiet, people will assume you are having all sorts of deep thoughts. :-)
2007-02-11 08:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by astralpen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people assume that part of being confident means being outgoing. Although being outgoing is a very common trait that people associate with being confident, it definitely is not the only trait that determines confidence.
You can show your confidence without changing yourself by doing the things you do without being nervous or showing hesitation. You just need to have a strong belief in whatever you do.
2007-02-11 08:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question. You can be confident and be quiet. You don't have to speak loudly or draw a lot of attention to yourself to give someone a friendly hello or a smile.
2007-02-11 08:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By being consistent and trusting in your own abilities. Quietness is also a virtue not everyone likes show off folks.
2007-02-11 08:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by Grianagh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's many aspects to being Confident. Show everyone that you know what you're doing. You know what you want. And you're doing what it is to make yourself Happy!
2007-02-11 08:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence has nothing to do with how loud/outspoken you are. If you are confident in yourself, people will see it in you without you having to be outspoken
2007-02-11 08:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by thunder31634 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to talk some time and when u do there will b some confidence in wat u r sayin cuz u r quiet and there is a reason for u being quiet and u have confidence to talk
2007-02-11 08:37:57 · answer #7 · answered by ღ♥MadamA.A.♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite pals to something that showcases your very own skills. maximum probable your advantageous on your strengths. enable others see you at you maximum suitable-they are going to see your self assurance whether it incredibly is not being the loudest of the team.
2016-10-01 23:37:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn a martial art and stand for good (non-liberal) causes.
2007-02-11 08:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you do have something to say, smile and make eye contact and try to be charismatic.
2007-02-11 08:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋