2007-02-11 08:18:34 · 15 answers · asked by red rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Probably not. Statistics are not on your side. Eventually the difference in religion will be a huge problem, especially when you have kids. You may agree now to let your children pick or decide now what one to raise them in, but once you actually have children things will happen to make you change your mind and the difference in religion will be a huge problem. Especially religions that different. Also, if you are both close to your families and they are against the marriage that will cause major issues as well. Your families will not be as supportive when problems do come up between you two.
2007-02-11 08:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by HereIAm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong in a Hindu guy getting married to a Muslim girl but your friends should have thought it out a bit more practically. What was the hurry to get married? or even if there was they should have done so legally. As the girl is a Muslim the Indian court will not consider their marriage without a witness legal. Though I do not support the idea but an easy way to resolve the issue is that one of them converts to the others religion & then get married other option is get a registered marriage done. The girl if a major has every right to say no to a forceful marriage. I suggest your friend, the boy chooses between standing by his love or going abroad for further studies.
2016-03-29 02:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by Shirley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The similar situation happened to one of my close friends, but the guy was christian and the girl was Muslim. Both families were against it. They ran off and got married in another state with the help of some close friends and stayed away for a month. Finally the guy's family took him in. But the girl's family totally disowned her. I would think that Muslims would be more vigorous in this matter than Ur Hindu family. Ur family might come to accept u later on in life. But I am sorry to say that Ur marriage wont happen with both parents' consent. Good luck anyway. Don't give up on true love just to make Ur parents happy. It's not worth it.
2007-02-11 08:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
The mixed marriage between a Muslim boy and Hindu girl will work even if both parents are against it . Now world is changing, religion have less say in relationships, peoples are becoming more open minded .This type of marriages works if following conditions are there:
1.If both boy and girl are not dependent on parents.
2.If both are working .
3. If both boy and girl are open minded.
4. if both allow their partner to follow his /hir religion.
Enjoy Life
Dr.Mojo
2007-02-11 20:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it never works. There are 2 different cultural thoughts. Once married you are not only married to that person but your are married to you spouse's family as well. Hindus and Muslim have different thought process. Marriage cannot work PERIOD.
2007-02-15 07:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no!!because religion would always get in the way!!!you would both have to give up your religions or one would have to convert to the other's!!and no matter what you do the parents on each side will be angry!!if you do decide to get married,i tell you it will be very difficult!!!you will always be looked at like the "hindu girl" and he will always be seen as the "muslim boy"!!then they'll all have fights when you have kids each will want their religion for the grandchildren!!!i tell you it'll be a never ending battle!!!
2007-02-11 08:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem i'm hindu and my bf is muslim our parents are really against it but i have talked to me parents and told them that i really love him and i want to get married to him and he also did the same after both of us talked to our pereant the told us that do what every you want but they hope he will take care off me..so i think you both should talk to your parents and i hope this is what you both wants because its will be very hard after getting married..
2007-02-11 10:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by sarahmuaaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From Islamic point of view marriage will be invalid. The whole marriage life would be considered as fornication and children will be considered born out of wedlock.(Harami)
2007-02-12 02:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i too had a muslim bf...but we split coz he was too cowardish to go against his parents...my parents had sort of agreed...i don't think it will b such an issue later on...u can always grow up ur children in a secular home...
n sarah is really lucky to hav such a great bf and a great life...good luck to u...
2007-02-11 12:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by purple_spark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents are more matured. they may be right. i have seen that mixed marriages are not successful as ur cultures, ur traditions, ur prayings are totally different. hindus pray cow and muslims consider it as a dirty animal.
2007-02-11 18:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by glamourgirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋