i feel all right during the day because things keep me busy but i get really lonely at night, wishing I had that Special Someone. how do i deal with it. i don't want to long for something that may or may not happen. love is destiny.
thanx
2007-02-11 08:16:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You get over loneliness by getting out of the house. Go out with friends, go to a movie, read a book, call a friend, go visit Mom and Dad.....the point being, DO SOMETHING! Loneliness will consume you if you just sit there in that house all night, every night. If you get out, there's a good chance you'll meet someone.
2007-02-11 08:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to your situation. I do as you and feel my time up with anything I can. The winter is the hardest because I can't get out and do things in the yard. And at night, I have had insomnia for so long that I take ambiem to help me sleep. I have a couple of cats that takes some of the loneliness away. I see so many people that just hook up with anyone to avoid loneliness and it usualy doesn't work for them. I remember when I was married that there many days that I felt lonely even when he was there. So not always does another person fill up what we think is missing. I wish you the best.
2007-02-11 16:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, nobody makes you happy. You have to learn to do this yourself. Learn to like YOU, and your own company. When you are bright, self-confident, and dont NEED anybody, thats when they flock to you. A "needy" person is not attractive to anyone. Find ways to stay busy at night, find hobbies, get passionate about something (not someone) - be an "interesting" person, be someone YOU would want to be with. Love can be fleeting, but your stuck with yourself forever. Better learn to like that person.
2007-02-11 16:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by Julie V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to love yourself, dogs also help in my opinion. Good luck also remember people can be lonely even when they have someone special that is even worse.
2007-02-11 16:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by pete 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes effort on your part...and sometimes it's not easy.
Call or e-mail friends.....start a journal or a hobby....read books that you've been putting off....start a personal program to improve how you look.
Loneliness comes and goes...so just remember that nothing stays the same forever.
2007-02-11 16:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I just mope around untell I'm tired of moping around and I have to stop, or you could listen to happy music, or take sleeping pills to make you fall asleep faster so you don't think about it
2007-02-11 16:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by Laura Appleseed 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
find a fb until you run in to the love of your life.
2007-02-11 16:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by igiveup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋