hadn't wanted to have sex w/you for 8 months. She tells you she is just not in the mood.
2007-02-11 07:58:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
"Not in the mood" flies once or twice maybe. No man should be in a relationship where he is rejected at the most basic emotional and physical level over and over and over again. If I were the husband, I would think my wife didn't love me or want me or care about me at all. This is a form of abuse, make no mistake. Controlling, manipulative and demeaning. He needs to go and take any kids with him, because any woman who conducts her life in a way that purposely hurts and demeans other people, will find a way to purposely hurt her own children, too.
2007-02-11 08:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by Paul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then there is some other problem there..Sounds like they'd really need to talk things over..
Not in the mood means "sparks are no longer flying"..OR..that woman just hates sex, (which means he probably sux at it). Perhaps she should take a more active role in sex and guiding him into making it better..
Sex after all is not about marriage/relationship/commitment, it's about two people feeling "good" :D
2007-02-11 16:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by m34tba11 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At first, like all men I am insecure at the core about my , well manhood. So I would suspect it was me.
As time continued, I would suspect that she is meeting her needs somewhere else.
This is why communication is so vital. If there is a medical problem, get it treated. I losing a marriage and destroying a family worth a bit of silence?
And by the way, it won't take very long until he stops trying and moves on to another woman.
Ken
2007-02-11 16:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by Ken B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I couldnt help but notice that your advatar is one of a female. Dont males usually have male advatars? Anyway to voice my opinion about your question. If shes not cheating than I would think she was either raped or has some sort of medical condition. Whatever the case maybe you need to get to the bottom of it as soon as possible.
2007-02-11 16:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am a woman, and I know I have a different perspective...BUT
1. She was sexually molested and not gotten over it.
2. Her man is a really lousy lover.
3. She is having an affair.
# 1 & 2 can be fixed...the 3rd means the end, probably.
2007-02-11 16:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would get her some help. Either there is something wrong in our relationship or she is suffering from some sort of physical problem. I would set her up with a doctor or maybe a psychiatrist. Sex is healthy for a relationship and no one deserves to be deprived of it.
2007-02-11 16:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd start to think that maybe there was some cheating going on or I seriously F'd up somewhere.
2007-02-11 16:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she isnt in the mood, she isnt in the mood. i cant force her to have sex. me and my hands will be really close though
2007-02-11 17:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by young grown man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So put her in the mood!
2007-02-11 16:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think she either had problems with me or she was cheating.
Either that or she needs some counciling. Because that's not normal.
2007-02-11 16:08:27 · answer #10 · answered by neep71 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋