well. my question is stupid. so no mean answers.
i dont have a valentine, and am sure i wont, like it's not even a hopeful possibility. my school had a dance last weekend and no one danced with me, so i'm 14 and still havent had my first real boyfriend, you know the one that is like nice, and sweet, and cute, well still isnt here, am i stupid for being like this, wanting one? in the meantime while all my friends are havieng flirting fun, and i'm alone, trying my best to get a guy by the way, what am i supposed to do?
2007-02-11 07:44:02 · 15 answers · asked by a 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
sorry, but um.
it's the truth there is like no use of jumping up and down about not having someone..!
2007-02-11 07:51:00 · update #1
Ashlyn, only a very few of the girls in your school actually have "boyfriends". Most are split between wishing they had someone, having a lot of attention by someone they don't like, and pretending they do...but they don't.
At 14 you should be starting to look, and thats fine. But if you aren't finding, don't give up hope. Make sure to keep options open, and the best way to find someone special is to share common interests (such as your writing).
Many people are depressed about going into Valentines day without someone special. Some will find that day to be the special day when someone has enough courage to say "Will you be my Valentine".
When I was 14 Valentine's day was not about who already had a special someone.... it was about all of us who did not. Maybe it was mass hysteria that allowed us guys to approach previously unapproachable girls and give them a card.
2007-02-11 09:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Valentine's Day would properly be highly depressing, besides the undeniable fact that that is between the in trouble-free terms situations of the three hundred and sixty 5 days the position you are able to discover who's unmarried very obviously. once you've someone you want to study with, who would not look with some different person in this present day, this can be an effective time to make the flow. If no longer, bury your head in the books and video games and make your self seem very busy till that is throughout! anybody feels lonely without a Valentine, it is completely known.
2016-12-04 01:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by saylors 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your question is not stupid. I won't be mean. *I promise!*
Valentine's Day is a holiday for all those snooty kids who are in love that you go to school with to smooch one another openly in public without contempt in the eyes of their peers. Its a "haha lookie here Ive got someone to love" day. I've never gotten to laugh like that. I've never had a "valentine" (what are they supposed to do anyways go valentine-ing around everywhere?) or a boyfriend. I've always been to shy and indecisive although I know a lot of prospective fellows. I'm 15.
All in all, I'm not going to tell you to go have a "girls night out" or anything because those are silly and pointless. Harsh reality is that some years Valentines Day is gonna suck. Others will show you the highest of ecstacy along with the deepest of sorrows that is love.
Have a nice Feb. 14th (lord knows I'm not gonna ha ha)
EDIT: Sorry lengthy answer. Its not dumb for you to want a boyfriend, but maybe wait until you're a bit older. Just saying. I have friends who are 14 and they have boyfriends- not pretty scene.
2007-02-12 17:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
see u are a special person for whom a very special person is chosen. You dont want to date a stupid n ugly guy right?
the day u will get ur bf will be a great day.
valentine days come n go. You can celebrate any day as a valentine day.
i too dont have anyone this valentine day. i have stopped celebrating these days and believe that the day i like will be celebrated as valentines day.
Dont get disheartened. Enjoy Life There r many other things in life besides getting a boyfriend.
\,,/ nJoY
2007-02-11 07:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by tom_under_scanner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't either so what you don't need one to be happy I have good friends to make me smile. No your not stupid its just the guys are mean and some day don't worry you will find the right one. You don't have to be like anyone but yourself be happy with what you have and don't feel sad about the stuff you don't. It takes time but you will find the right person when your older. And also guys don't know what girls are like on the inside they just go by looks. And I wish you a happy valentines day.
From
Ashley
2007-02-11 10:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur only 14...im 2 years older then u r. trust me, u shouldnt be in a hurry to get a bf and b worring bout having a valentine. it would probly b akward. i mean wondering what u should get him and what he is getting u. Guys arent that great as a teen. and most of the ones these days are jerks. not all but u have a bigger chance of geting a guy that only wants one thing thengetting a guy who cares. as a teen its hard not being interested in a lot of stuff that involves guys but its better to stay away from getting involve, the chances are youll get ur heart broken. Dont stress over it!!
2007-02-11 08:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by Kita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...I'm 13 and I'm having my 1st valentine ever and I love him so much I know that sounds naive but all I did to get him was be myself and i know a lot of ppl will prob say that but coming from someone your own age its TRUE......he loves me for me even tho I'm not the skinniest or prettiest girl he could get.......If worst comes to worst ask a random guy friend to hang out who is also single and hang out as friends but if something happens it happens if not you just spent the day with a great guy. I hope it helps feel free to message me or if you want email me and I will send you my my space
2007-02-11 07:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by britty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join the club. You're not the only one. Don't worry, your patience will be rewarded. Even if you don't have anyone now, there's probably the perfect guy out there for you somewhere.
2007-02-11 10:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by <Me> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry i'm just like u .v-day is comeing up gather a group of friends together and hang out . or maybe just maybe if u like someone n ur REALLY worry confess ur feelings towards him..good luck happy v-day
2007-02-11 07:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's me. I fit your criteria for a perfect boyfriend.
Too bad I'm only 13.
2007-02-11 07:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by ZZ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋