Why is it so hard for the majority of men to only want to have sex with one woman?

Question

it seems that the thought of only having sex with one woman (the one they love and marry) is so horrible to them. im perfectly content in only having my husband for the rest of my life. whats up with that?

Answer 1

We just like having sex with as many women as possible. So ladies get over it and stop calling us pigs. Women have to remember us pigs are responsible for most of things they touch in this world. We build and fix their cars, build their homes, and slaughter their food.

With the industrialization of society women have gained the illusion they don't need men anymore. Men have to remember they are still the stronger sex and need to stop giving away their power to women just to have sex. Being the stronger sex mean making the mental changes to make women happy. Making each other happy is the goal of being together. Men like to do things for women so she gives him pleasure. No matter how independent women get they will need the companionship of men. As women make more money they have to be willing to use their money to support the family even if the man is not making as money. This is the price for becoming independent.

In the past a man's earned wages took care of up to 10 people. Women still think a man should make more money even though she is taking more and more higher paying jobs. Women have to be willing to love a man even if she is the major breadwinner of the household. Men have to take more responsibility in the home because he too lives in this industrialized society and have less to do outside of the house.

So men get off you asses and help your women around the house so she has more time and energy to give you the sexual pleasure you want as a man.

There is no reason to be confused about gender rolls anymore. Just work together and come to mutual agreement to make life easier for the both of you.

Men wake up and women stop being so angry with men. We are idiots and still need your guidance to be civilized. So tell your man he is in control as long as he is not being an idiot. Women only step in when you really need to train his ignorant butt.

So the moral of the story: let us make life less stressful and have more sex so men don’t have to go outside of the home looking for other places to spread his seed because of sexual frustration.

Answer 2

I don't think that it has any thing to do with the sex not being interesting any more or the female not wanting it enough. In my experience with my hubby, he strayed while I was pregnant with our first child. I still wanted sex during the pregnancy and maybe not as much as he did or I didn't get as into it, as I would of if I didn't have a huge uncomfortable belly infront of me. Not to mention how was I suposed to even feel sexy throwing up every day and gaining 20 lbs. But before & after the pregnancy I've always been the more sexual one, always wanting it more often & always trying new things & role playing etc. in bed. So I thought I was safe, but I wasn't he just couldn't stick out the pregnancy and wait for me to get back to my old self again, I mean we still had sex once a week during the pregnancy but positions were limited during the end of it. And that's about the same time that he cheated. With this ugly older fatter chick. But whatever, I'll never understand why he did that to me, I was carrying his child and he repays me by f'ing some one else numerous times that he met online. Come on guys why are you so weak.

Answer 3

Men have urges and fantasies, but the thought of standing by one woman is not an awful thing for most men. Life is about a choice between wanting many repeated quick moments of excitement or building a relationship and family. I think by far the happiest men around are the ones that choose family and children and stability. The guys that need the fling are always next to chaos, and are not men to be depended on for anything meaningful.

Answer 4

I don't think either women or men necessarily have "it" harder. We both may have some advantages and disadvantages, depending on the situation. True, only women give birth. But I've heard of many father's claiming that they wish they could have that experience (minus the pain) of carrying the child, getting the attention, and having the head start in bonding. Plus, when women express that they have physical (or emotional pain) they get compassion (i.e. hugs, verbal support, gifts, etc), whereas men are told to suck it up, grow up, be a man, etc.

Answer 5

Well men like sex,do you?
Why ruin it with all these thoughts of negativity before you even get laid, you seem so up tight to be honest, maybe you need some good ol oppressive religion.
In a week- month, you'll be back bagging for it,with no strings attached, just go for it! Wild passionate steamy hot sex!
What the heck is wrong with that?
If there is any thing better God kept it to himself..
So just be careful is the real issue here and safe, the rest is commentary.

Answer 6

I've always been a one woman man. I can not figure out how men can handle more that one. Just trying to keep one woman happy can be diff. at times. And I'm sure the ladies think the same about that towards men.

Answer 7

If you think evolutionarily, women can only produce a limited number of offspring, no matter how many partners they have. Men who only have sex with one woman are also limited to the number of offspring one woman can produce. Men who have sex with two women can have twice as many offspring. Men who have sex with three women can have three times as many offspring, and so forth. Thus, in our evolutionary past, men who preferred multiple partners were more likely to have more children, and the male offspring could have inherited the desire for sex with multiple partners. After many generations, most men would have the innate desire to mate with multiple women.

In any case, this phenomenon is not confined to humans. If you mate a male rat with a female rat, he is not able to perform sexually with her again for a while. However, if you introduce a different female, he'll be back to business.

Answer 8

Biology dictates that men will try to procreate with as many women as possible, just like any male animal. It's our brains that separate us from animals though and that is why it isn't acceptable for men to have sex with any girl he likes. There is a boredom factor too, it has to be said. When things go stale with their partner and the desire is ebbing, men can look elsewhere to try to recreate what they once had with the woman they love.

Answer 9

Call me crazy BUT if my husband wanted to go out and get a piece of strange, it wouldn't be a big deal. As a matter of fact, we have an understanding that if he is interested in someone sexually then he may do as he pleases. The only rules: he has to wear a condom and he has to tell me about it.

He is committed to me and loves me. Sex and love doesn't always go hand-in-hand.

If he started having feelings for someone then that would be a problem.

Answer 10

Their system is designed to be able to pregnant several women, ours however is made where we get pregnant and need the guy to stick around and take care of us.
However being intelligent beings they can learn to love just one girl. If you're guy still wants more girls(and not in a joking way) then he's probably not in love. Sorry.