my mother passed on last august...since then my lamp lights and light bulbs flicker often in my home and in hers, i have also since bought two new computers which act up on a regular basis...so much so that i have either returned them or have to had to have them reprogramed...i have owned two new cell phones since Jan. 2 of this year and both show signs of making calls into the future...the company can't explain the problem...in addition, I have had the sim card replaced...also the day she died, the electric candle in her bedroom window burned out, the panic horn on her vehicle went off for no apparent reason at the funeral home two times in the two days while her body lied in state there...i have tried to talk with her and this seems not to be working...my son had a similar experiences...i love my mother and want her to go in peace...is it me or is it her...please tell me what you think..
2007-02-11 07:18:43 · 16 answers · asked by sky 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
My mother past away August 2005, what a coincidence...anyway i found that one day i was feeling a little down about loosing her and i was sitting at my computer and the lights on the router started to flicker,and after wards i swear right under my desk there was a pure white feather, i had no idea where this came from i like to think my mother was around.
2007-02-11 07:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me its just a plain hallucination. Your always thinking of your mother, and you love her so much. That's why you are suffering right now because she is not around.
It's all inside your mind, those profound imaginations are created by you, and only by you. There are no super natural phenomena around you. You strongly believe in such ghost stories, myth, beliefs that are not true, that's why your brain generates those happenings, and make it like it is for real.
About the lamp lights that flicker, try replacing it with a new one. Your phone that makes call into the future, don't use it, and try to use another phone. Call someone, or ask a friend to stay, or someone you can trust, to watch the happenings around your home, watch your phone, the computers that you bought, your lamp lights, etc. If your friend, or someone saw or witnessed some peculiar happenings in your home, rather than you, then, there is something weird that's happening.
Pray, ask God for guidance, and forgiveness. God is in control of everything, if you're a Christian and you believe in God. Evil spirits can't come near to you even an inch. If you don't believe in God, you do have a serious problem, call your psychologist, and ask for some advise...
I hope this helps...
2007-02-11 07:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jehzeel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are letting your imagination get the better of you. Your Mom is gone, resting in peace. Your electrical problems could be a serious concern and you should have them checked out by an electritian before anything happens to your home. There may be a short circuit somewhere and that could be affecting all of your appliances. Whenever there's a drain on power, my lights flicker too, but no your Mom is not paying me visits either.
I think you just miss her something terrible. Maybe you should see a grief counselor or talk to your pastor or priest. The funeral director may know of a grief counselor for you to see.
I lost my Mom back in '79 and I still miss her. We were very close, too. Find something that was hers like a pillow or article of clothing that wasn't washed and sleep with that at night. Oddly you will find comfort in her scent left behind on the item.
2007-02-11 07:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by Lola 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Similar things have happened to me since my mother passed on. One of my brothers has had a few missed calls on his cell phone. One of them was from my mother's house phone, the other was from her cell phone, which was kept in a draw in my bedroom. It hadn't been used in over a year. I think your mom is trying to tell you she's still around you at times. I've tried talking to my mother too, and nothing happens, except for when my sister came to stay. She was sleeping in the room which used to be our mother's, and said she was seeing lights and mist in the room. Next night, we went in the room, turned off the light and lit a candle. The mist was so thick, my sis reached out to touch it, but when I tried, it felt like an electric shock ! (Told later that this was because my mother was trying to contact my sis and I shouldn't have reached out since my sis saw the mist and lights more clearly than me.) We also saw an orb float past. I sleep in that room now and the light often flickers. I just say "hello" and it stops.
2007-02-11 07:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On first sigth I would say "No, there migth an electrical problem a home that should be repaired" same thing for the cell phone. Then I would, personally say "Oh! it was a great loss, I should ask for help to get things on on the healthiest way I can, so my family " and consult an expert in tanathology, who deal with pain and loss for to get the best way out of it. Yet I would hear myself, my body, my insticnt, my uncunciouss, my soul...Particularly my dreams and if all this still goes on then I would say "Good Heavens! My mom is trying to say something to me and/or my son I/we/he should listen" Anyway keep your mind open for any result and possible interpretation of yours and his.
2007-02-11 08:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by Gerardo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly it is your mom. If you have a voice recorder, try turning it on and talking to your mom when these things occur. Sometimes the recorder can pick up things you can't hear. They are called (EVP) or electronic voice phenomenon. If you don't believe stuff like that try the-atlantic-paranormal-society.com and pick the EVP link. You can listen to the dead talking to the living. It will creep you out but it might help. I am sorry for your loss.
2007-02-11 07:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by invictus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand approximately you mom attempting to touch you spiritually. objectives are what a human is questioning, it is your strategies like enjoying a action picture, its no longer actual. some objectives can experience extremely actual like the only while your falling and you bounce away from mattress or jolt suddenly once you awaken! i think of that's an atypical accident which will probable no longer influence you, in case you think of your getting drawn at the same time do no longer bypass searching for her and finally she'll come to you. If thats destiny. desire this helps!
2016-10-01 23:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, sorry, it's your over-eager/anxious imagination connecting electrical problems and coincidences.
Intriguing... what on Earth are "signs of making calls into the future" ? How would you know ? Or do you mean they show call histories that give future dates instead of past ones (in which case your "into" should be "in") ? Phone virus or electronic problem.
2007-02-11 07:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jack Of All 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are having electrical problems in your home.
2007-02-11 07:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get hold of Stephen King and write a bestseller with him. You'll be so rich that you can buy a new home and get away from this nasty ghost
2007-02-11 07:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋