i dont know who i am?

Question

Im 14 and im in high school now i remember when i was in 8th grade i wanted to be in a rock band (i was a rocker) i loved music and made my own lyrics i drew flames and hearts and i was with depression. Now im in high school and i went to a different school then all my rocker frineds in this school its a change cuz i dont hang with the rockers anymore i hang out with the mexicans and they have tought me a lot of new things and it seems like ive forgotten the old things that i liked i dont like music as much and i dont write lyrics anymore its like im changing and dont knw what i want i remember yesterday we were at a game and then i was talking about how its hard to jump since we have boobs and butts and thighs you know then this girl tanya said its not the way you are its how you think (like if you believe you can do it you can) it seems like ive forgotten who i am and what i should be help? any advice? like take time find yourself or somehting

Answer 1

First of all, relax. You're at a stage in your life where things are changing and not knowing who you are is perfectly normal. Feel free to explore new things. Try 'em out and see what makes sense. Give yourself time (maybe 10 years) to figure out who and what you are.
It's ok.