my sister has just a little boy and in hostpital and i offered to tidy for her .he did,nt know i was gonna tidy for them today and i found an gay magazine on the bed does it mean he,s gay or what shall i tell my sister about it or should i my keep my mouth shut?help
2007-02-11 07:07:00 · 16 answers · asked by Ruth J 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I would ask him is he gay/bi. If he says yes i would ask that he ends the relasionship and that he doesn't hurt her.
2007-02-12 06:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by ndc40 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may be just curious, or he may be Bi.
It also does not mean he is cheating on her, with a man, with a woman either.
If its at the point where he is not afraid to leave the magazine out she may already be aware.
If I understand you right she just had a child and is still in the hospital. This would not be a good time, Give her a couple weeks to enjoy the baby. She probably won't be having sex again right away anyway.
2007-02-11 07:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by Vultureman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not over-reacting and I would confront them without your sister being involved. You deserve to know what is going on. It is Andy's job to come clean with your sister. Whether he's gay or not, I have not a clue but it doesn't look innocent.
2016-05-23 22:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough one...I would not tell my sister he is Gay...you do not have the facts to say that. He may be bi, he may be straight..you have no real idea why the magazine was there. We can make assumptions, and they may well be true, but here, probably the best option is to either ask him directly or keep it to yourself for the time being. Me? I would ask him about it. He may have a reasonable explanation.
2007-02-11 07:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you just forget about it then you're sister finds out,it could cause a rift between you both.You may want to start by asking her boyfriend what it was doing there,try and find out where he goes or who he sees when not with her.If you do tell you're sister you will need hard evidence.Good luck!
2007-02-11 21:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by half pint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what people do in the privacy of their homes, is up to them. it doesnt necessarilly mean, u would do the same but the difference is, you are in their home and my advice would be to ignore anything you find disagreeable or not to your liking. it might be different if it was happening under your roof but as its not, then dont bother about it, keeps your thoughts to yourself.
2007-02-11 23:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you mean that you were snooping around .. and found something that is none of your business? Do you really have to ask?
2007-02-11 07:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything it's not up to you to tell her. It does sound like he could be bi tho.
2007-02-11 22:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by noireck66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is none of your business, it is between your sister and her boyfriend, forget what you saw and let them get on with it.
2007-02-11 07:12:21 · answer #9 · answered by Blackheath rugby wife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybey he saw you in the shower and that was enough to turn him you nosey cow
2007-02-11 07:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by master betty 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋