Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a month now. We have spent a lot of time toghether and we even have some feelings for eachother. Lately things have suddenly changed for me. It all started when he didnt return my phone calls for like 4days (but we got over that), and he said he heard a few rumors about me, but suppossedly he doesn't believe them. He feels everything is fine between us but when i told him its not and i dont have feelings for him anymore he says he wants to work it out with me. He hasn't talked to me yet (since 3 days ago). Am i trying to hard, or trying to rush things? We want to be with eachother, i dont really wanna lose him but what am i doing wrong?
2007-02-11 07:00:34 · 2 answers · asked by tweetyzluv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stop trying so hard! just relax and let things evolve naturally. If he does things that hurt your feelings (like not returning a phone call for days) frequently - like once a week, then get rid of him. get a callendar and every day put a happy face or a frowny face - if you felt it was a good day happy - he made you feel bad frowny. if you end up with a frequently sad callendar get rid of him!
2007-02-11 09:03:31 · answer #1 · answered by Rhuby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really don't believe it when he says he doesn't believe the rumors he has heard about you. rumors can really hurt a relationship early on (especially with teens) because you have not build a bond yet so outside interference can trick you. your best bet is to talk to him and try to make him talk to you, but don't push him. if hes the type of person that doesn't want to get pushed, then don't push. there is a communication problem and it needs to be worked out, or the relationship will go nowhere.
2007-02-11 15:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by Bren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋