Ok my mum does not want me to go to the UK and I’m from Ireland. But I want to go to Canterbury Christ Church University, and she keeps on saying that it’s to hard for me. But she does not know anything about the requirements and he keeps on saying I’m to young to be going into the world on my own when I’m 18 or 19 and next year is going to me my last year is school . But why does she not want me to study it??? She keeps on saying that psychology are fools and I would not have the mind to sit there listing to people keep on about there problems. But I want to be an educational psychologist not a clinical psychologist or any of the others and she does don't know the differences between them . But what should I say to her I’m going over and that is that . But she does not want me going at all . My brother when to college in this country . And he was never way from home . When i was going on the school tour she start to cry when i was about to go . And she knows i will be ok with out her
2007-02-11 06:47:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Studying Abroad
Well, I think she really believes the things she says...... Young , immature, her baby, far from home....... Get it? You want to be a psychologist, You should understand her.
Now, what about You? If You think she`s wrong, You have to prove it by acting, not by meditating on her thoughts&statements. It`s hardly she won`t back You up, if You`re resolved to go. You know:prepared, with plans A&B, packed, and ready to go... If she`s to finance it, You might want to find another source to show her (and Yourself) that You deserve her on Your side... And tell her You love her, You need to follow Your dream, You`ll always will be her son, You`ll miss her.....
2007-02-11 07:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by Romentari 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and talk to her be gentle and sensitve but really honestly sometimes you need to do whats best for you im with a man 12 years my senior and i am 18 my parents dont really talk to me anymore but i know that things will improve with time once they have calmed down and they see i am happy... tell your mum that you want to make something of you life and milk it abit saying that you wanna earn so she can relax when shes older and you will be able to help her financially if need be because she gave you this opportunity... good luck in the mean time show her that you are responsable and mature by not doing anything stupid or getting in trouble no matter how small.. her mind will be more at rest if she knws your not an idiot
2007-02-11 07:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Minx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
like every mother lovin her childs, urs do 2.
Give her fact, speak that u re not young, u can be responsible 4 ur self, u ll go there 2 study what u think is best 4 u, u ll call her every 3rt day ;) u ll come back on the breaks etc.
2007-02-11 06:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by alek_rjk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋