to me not all just some and i do nto feel i belong and am accepted by some people but i dont, have many friends and their and sit alone sometimes do you think i am being stupid.
2007-02-11 06:13:47 · 4 answers · asked by denny 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Don't worry about the people at your church. Recently church has become nothing but a social event. People go to show others how devoted they are to their faith, when in reality, they are not there for the faith, they are because they are worried of other's judgements of them.
No one has the right to judge you except your creator. Don't listen to the people in your church if they pass judgement on you. It is not their place, and you should remind them of that. Let them be snotty and rude. Their time will come when they are before their creator, and they review their life, and realize how judgmental they were of others.
Stay strong in your belief and faith, and don't let other's intimidate you, or keep you from your church.
P.S.- I am not religious what-so-ever. I am actually atheist, but I believe that everyone should have a right to choose what they believe in. I respect your choice of faith, and I think you should stand up for your beliefs, and forget everyone else trying to judge you or bring you down.
Good Luck. Be strong, and independent, don't let other people make you feel bad about yourself. People can only make you feel badly about yourself if you let them. You are in control of how you feel about other's actions. Hope this helps.
2007-02-11 06:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by Charleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the ones you are talking about might be what was described in the song "Mississippi Squirrel Revival" as a "Sister Bertha Better-Than-You," who is perceived to be sinless, and revels in that reputation and considers herself superior because of it, thereby, ironically, committing the sin of vanity.
2007-02-11 14:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have felt the same way are you baptist? haha jp Women are like that you'll find, but it's ok we can be friends together and just go to church and give all those mean b*tches glares!
2007-02-11 14:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by Gen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always I feel they are snooty.
2007-02-11 14:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by quillologist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋