I am a 15 yr old female and i found some clothes that i really like, but the problem is that they are goth clothes. My mom has had problems with me wearing black in the past, so when i tell her about the goth clothes i wanna buy she will probably FREAK. Oh and im not goth, i just like goth clothing. How can i tell her about the clothes without her totally freaking out? How can i get her to let me buy them?
2007-02-11 05:19:49 · 8 answers · asked by Barrel_Racing_Cowgirl 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
take her with you and ask her if you like them when i try them on can you think about it. try to be understanding that she has her own optinion of what she "thought" her daughter would dress, but also tell her that its just part of your uniqueness.
try to have a fun shopping day with her
2007-02-11 05:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you buy goth clothes everyone will think you're one. But you know do what you want to do, and for your mother, try not to buy all the goths clothes at the same time.
2007-02-11 05:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by frenchgirlXX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd freak out to if I were her, your gonna turn goth if you wear them, cause your gonna attract other goths.
"Birds of a feather...flock together"
2007-02-11 05:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by PegBundyWannabe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that everyone deserves to have there own opinion and you have yours. And that everyone deserves to have there own unique style no matter what anybody says. Tell her black is just a colour and not a label, and instead of discouraging you to not have your own style tell her to be a little more supportive! Tell her its my life, and I can do what I want with it! Hope it helps!
2007-02-11 05:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by bex_xoxo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
real tough one.
you mean she doesn't you wearing black clothing at all.
you live under her roof so you live under her rules also
unfortunately you may have to wait till you're 18
if it were possible i'd send you the cash and you could sneak into the mall. just because i hate it when people can't express themselves.
2007-02-11 05:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by the one and only robertc1985 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her with you and ask her if you like them when i try them on can you think about it try to be understanding that she has her own opinion of what she thought her daughter would dress but also tell her that its just part of your uniqueness try to have a fun shopping day with her.
2007-02-11 05:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by mwaks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would try explaining WHY I liked them. That way, your mom can see things from your point of view, right?
2007-02-11 05:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Mischa S. ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just buy em an dont tell her dont be such a chicken
2007-02-11 05:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by purple_ronnie_always 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋