She will not answer her phone or email or snail mail She does ask about me when she speaks to my aunt. we got into it because i thought she was withdrawing and not talking to me. she filed for a divorce last week stateing I was crule to her which is bunk we really never have even had a fall out before. She has never left me or has she gave me the silent treatment before till now.
2007-02-11 04:56:44 · 20 answers · asked by bilwheeler55 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like she has made up her mind to move on ....without you. You have NO choice but to accept her decision. Give her some time....she might change her mind. Good Luck!!
2007-02-11 05:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
looks like you want some encouragement. i imagine it really is bigoted that she will be able to not communicate with you that is unbecoming of a Christian. She owes you an evidence, (if she hadn't offered up the topics earlier she left) yet by technique of how she's going 'do not monetary company on it'. She filed for a divorce so settle for that. Now it really is time to heal and %. up the products. shop your words short and sweet and characteristic fulfillment on your destiny.
2016-11-27 01:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by santore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is being an immature biotch. She's acting like a child hiding and having a third party do her work.
She may be cheating or ******* someone else behind your back man and just left. Sounds like she just got bored of you and the marriage. She's being completely immature about it.
I dont think its worth it at all for you to be going through this. Dump her ***. You're bettter than that. You deserve better man. You can find other women who will treat you with the respect you deserve.
Good luck man. I mean it.
2007-02-11 05:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Was she always like that? Maybe she has someone else... its really childish to talk "only through your aunt".Anywho, tell your aunt to tell her that you two need to handle the divorce like adults and TALK TO EACH OTHER about it.She needs to tell you what her real reason is for leaving so you can have a little closure and so she won't be carrying the burden of having to tell you the truth.It doesn't make sense to leave for something so miniscule...you two really need to talk.
2007-02-11 05:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by Maria M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has another man she took off with and right now she knows she hurt you and figures it best to stay away. I bet your aunt knows a whole lot more about it than you think. Ask your aunt to be truthful and tell you whats really going on. Good Luck.
2007-02-11 05:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like she has someone else. You gave a very vague description of what happend- you say she said you are cruel, but telling someone they are withdrawing and not talking to you is not cruel and doesnt warrent getting a divorce. Clearly there is more going on there, and she certainly is serious about leaving so move on and stop torturing yourself.
2007-02-11 05:04:43 · answer #6 · answered by monique m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She does not want to talk with your right now. She wants her space and she may not love you anymore and she wants out. Give her some time and space and see if she comes back around or not. If she does not you have to realize she wants out and that you can not make someone love or want to be with you. You just may have to let her go and move on with your life.
2007-02-11 05:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. It may just take time but she might come around. My sister and her husband got back together a week before their divorce was final. Don't give up. Find a way to talk to her. You wont regret it.
2007-02-11 05:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kind of odd, sounds like she has shut down, she is totally blocking you out, almost like she made up her mind one day to leave and decided to never look back. I don't know what to say , I feel for you since you did not see this coming.
2007-02-11 05:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
her not speaking to you sounds like there may be another..sit tight because you have a long row to hoe if you think getting her back will be easy... ask her straight out about anyone else she maybe seeing or not...shes hiding something or from something. don't get angry at her. if this is what she really wants then you may have to let her go...good luck
2007-02-11 05:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋