Good people fail to get what they want even if they say they truly want it. How comes good people fail? What comes into their way to success and happiness in any sphere of their lives? What is the difference bettwen someone success and someones loses, given that they do the same thing?
2007-02-11 04:52:32 · 3 answers · asked by Gerardo G 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Destiny? Then, things are already meant to be?
Fear? to what? Success? Failure? Maturing? Living? Loneliness? Loss of identity?
How come we want the things we cannot have sometimes?
What do we do to sabotage success?
2007-02-12 13:35:54 · update #1
You ask, why do good people fail. Good people do not fail. True, people may not always get wheat they want, even if they truly want or deserve it. Maybe whatever it is they wanted was not meant to be theirs.
I know I am a good person and there are many things in life I have wanted (not only material objects) and I have not gotten them. I find later that something other has become mine and is better then what I originally wanted to obtain.
So dint see it as why do some people have success and others do not... the bottom line is that if a person does want something and does deserve it, they can endure obstacles to get to what is truly meant to be theirs.
2007-02-11 05:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way too broad a question.
What sorts of things are you talking about?
It may be that what they want is unrealistic.
It may be that they themselves don't know what they want.
Maybe they aren't as skillful and dedicated as they think they are.
Maybe they have personality flaws that prevent them getting what they want.
Maybe they want something that there isn't enough of to go around (very few people who want to can make a living at, for example, being a musician).
What people SAY they truly want is not necessarily what they DO truly want.
If you really want an answer to this question, explain what you're talking about.
There could be a billion reasons, but, not knowing any specifics, it's impossible to say.
2007-02-11 09:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who ever said life is fair. Life sucks period.
2007-02-11 05:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋