Hypothetically, is it possible and under what circumstances?
2007-02-11 04:47:17 · 14 answers · asked by wonderer152 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It could be possible, depending on the situation. What it all boils down to is that could you forgive the person for what he/she has done and can you start healing from that whole experience. It is up to the person who messed up big time to fix the damages and do whatever they can to gain your trust back. You have to do what is best for you. Let that person reach out to you and your job is to heal your wounds. It doesn't take one day to rebuild a relationship; it takes time. I hope my advice helps you. Good luck on healing your wounds and you will get through this.
2007-02-11 04:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how bad the trust was breached, and how much it hurt you, along with how much you trusted them before. Trust is a hard thing to give back or get back. Keep in mind that it will take time for it to get back. If the trust was majorly broken then it may never be back where it was, and as long as there is that untrusting feeling a relationship will be hard and may never work. Remember if you hold a grudge or keep throwing it at the other person it will take a lot longer to get it back. Also if the trust was on the lines of cheating-- there is no excuse for that. I do not believe the phrase "once a cheater always a cheater" because people can change and it could have been an honest "oops" but either way it will be difficult. Hard work between both parties to rebuild trust will build it back quicker and possibly stronger than before.
2007-02-11 04:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to begin with the answer all depends on how big the trust issues were.. If there was cheating involved then it is another story. As far as the the communication problems / fighting and arguements of course they can be fixed. The way I see it is as long as both people in a relationship actually want to be with each other and are willing to put in some effort It can always work. I think your partner should be the most important person in your life, the hard part is trusting and deciding who this person is.
2016-03-29 02:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first answer is for those couples with children, not step children...do what ever you can to save your relationship. jump threw hoops. A divorce will destroy your childrens lives. Any abuse and you should leave, ladies.
The second answer if for those who do not have children, You should have more pride than that. You need to have mutual respect for eachother, and any breach of trust would show a massive lack of respect. Leave now, because you are better than that.
An honest oops? did i really see an honest oops. Sorry honey, its not what it looks like, I slipped on the wet floor, and OOPS!
OPEN YOUR EYES.
2007-02-11 04:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by gibson_slayer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one thing to break your partner's trust once or twice. It's another altogether to repeatedly lie and do things behind their back. I am currently living this life. I wish so bad that my husband wanted only me and wanted to talk to me, to confide in me, to ask me for help. But he doesn't. I am obsessively worried all the time about finding out he's with someone else.
If both parties are willing to work at it, then it will be fine. If you are the injured and your partner repeatedly does something they shouldn't, I just don't know what to tell you. I guess keep trying as long as you can. I really don't know how much more I can take in my life.
2007-02-11 05:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by mandirae23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible. It depends upon the circumstances.
First it depends on just what they did and how badly they breached the trust that their partner had in them, and how badly they hurt them in the process.
Then it depends on just what they are willing to do to make it up to their partner and how hard they are willing to work to rebuild and regain their partner's trust. If they don't want to work at it and expect their partner to just accept things, it won't work.
2007-02-11 05:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do, you need to rebuild the trust back slowly and on his/her own time. It may take some time but with communication and understanding things should get back to normal unless it was a major **** up.
2007-02-11 04:51:54 · answer #7 · answered by lateisha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have enough love for that person in your heart its possible. I know someone who was married for 6 years she left him for another man. She then got pregnant and of course the baby daddy left her. All the while she's still married to the guy I know. Well, somehow they made their way back to eachother and he is going to father her child and remain married to her. I thought that was the craziest thing. Someone actually able to forgive that much. I don't know anyone else who is that capable. It must take a lot of love!
2007-02-11 04:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by LASS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because the other stuff will always be in the back of your mind. I've been married to a woman who's holding on to a mistake I made 20 years ago.
2007-02-11 04:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible if the two people want to work it out.
2007-02-11 04:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋