My ex & i broke up. my friends didnt like him and he started acting perverted. and he's been writing letters saying he wants me back and he can change. and i like his friend. but his friend is taken. by MY friend. What should I do? Explain your answer.
2007-02-11 04:44:35 · 11 answers · asked by кιяѕтү ;; 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Classic abuse cycle
Abuse...
(you reject)
He apologizes and promises to never do it again.
The honeymoon stage...he is nice
The he does it again.
(you reject)
He apologizes and promises to never do it again.
Close the door honey and seal it up. And for goodness sake, do you really want to complicate your life by hitting on your friend's bf? Think of the fallout on THAT one! ie: all your friends angry at you, she is angry at you...not a happy place!!
One soap opera at a time!
2007-02-11 04:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by Goddess of Laundry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to take the guy from your female friend, that would be very sad and you would lose your female friend.
As for your EX, he is your EX for a reason, forget about him, hunny.
There are tons of men in this world, pick one who is not a pervert and pick one who is not already taken.
Cheers
2007-02-11 12:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by Daft One 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget about your ex for obvious reason. You should get over liking your ex's friend because not only is he taken by your friend but is he also connected to your ex. That's just asking for drama. You should wait for someone else to come along and like.
2007-02-11 12:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by TCSO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. If you really feel like he'll change then giv him another chance but if you feel that he won't then don't take him back. It's not up to your friends it's up to you. He won't be dating them he'll be dating you. So my advice to you is do you think he will change or do you think he will not change? You need to search your heart and find this out on your own. No one else can tell you. It is up to you.
2007-02-11 12:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find someone else who isn't taken and isn't perverted and doesn't need to change.
2007-02-11 12:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if i was you... I would go to a pub, drink some wine and forget all that lousy situation... and then I would go to subscribe to a yoga courses or to dance just to find someone else!!!
2007-02-11 12:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by LuNa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want to be with him anymore let him know dont mislead him and far as his friend he's taken, what more can I say
2007-02-11 12:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by lateisha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, he sure sounds like he lost something. tel you what..you should say that if he don't leave you alone you will report to the police that he is stalking you..then do it if you value your safety
2007-02-11 12:48:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with your friend, and take her man away from her.
2007-02-11 12:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
find new friends-self explainatory
2007-02-11 12:48:33 · answer #10 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋