how do you get over somebody that you've liked since freshman year (im a junior now) and no don't think i'm a little kid with a crush lol i'm very mature & i know how i feel..when you have 3 classes w/them & see them in the hallways? i tryed talking to other guys but i just can't seem to like them..i always go back to him..he always comes back to me & when we talk on the phone and stuf he says he likes me & wants to be with me, but it's hard to trust him b/c the last 2 years i always seen him huggin other girls when he also was tellin me he liked me..when he tells me he wants to be with me i always mess it up because of something stupid (ex:he's black, i'm white) or i have the image in the back of my head that hes saying it to other girls too at the same time, but he sounds so serious & whenever we stop talking for a while he always starts texting me saying & misses me & calls me again saying he still likes me, blah blah..i really need help =\ sry for telling my whole life story lol TY
2007-02-11 04:36:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
actually i'm not sick, i'm human - thanks, see the thing is i do want to be with him but in a way i don't - like i told you he's flirty with other girls & he was in front of me even the times we were talking...i mean i'm not saying he can't have other girl friends, i don't know if there friendly hugs or what..do you know anything you can tell me that will hint out if he's serious or not? maybe that will help..
2007-02-11 04:49:52 · update #1
This is tricky.... do you want to be with him or not? if so, why dont you give it a try.... 2 yrs is a fairly long time. If you want to get over him then stop answering his calls and text and keep him at a distance even if you have classes with him.
2007-02-11 04:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello sweetie getting over someone is hard at times specially when you've liked him for a couple of years....but to tell you the truth you pretty much answered your own question. Cause you said "but it's hard to trust him cause for the last 2yrs you always see him huggin on other girls but telling you that he likes you". It sounds to me like 2 things could be happening, those other girls could just be friends and nothing more (cause you can hug friends... girls or guys) or you could be right. He could be telling those other girls that he likes them to, but see sweetie you really wont know until you give him a chance. Yeah I know that sucks cause you don't want to end up getting hurt by him, but what you can do is. Tell him that "you've liked him since freshman year but you're not sure if you can trust him cause you always see him huggin on other girls". Let him know that if he likes you like he says he does, then have him show you....which means tell him to prove to you that you can trust him and that if yall start to date. That his not going to be hanging all over other girls, his going to treat you like a angel and give you te love that any girl or women should deserve. Now don't sound like you think your all that but let him know that you have standards but there not to high that he can't achieve and you're not going to settle for what you know you can get. Cause honey thats one thing girls don't do, they know they can get what they deserve but they settle for things that treat them like trash. Why? Every girl deserves the best just like every guy deserves the best also, it goes both ways. Hope I helped and good luck with this situration.
2007-02-11 12:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yer sick and I aint answering
2007-02-11 12:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by outlaw64 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋