my life, what to do?

Question

WAITING FOR THE END (DEATH)

WHY IT TAKES SO MUCH TIME TO CHANGE ( LEARN ) YOUR LINE ( TRADE ) AFTER 53 ?
WHY DO PEOPLE CONSIDER YOU A LIABILITY, ONCE YOU ARE ON THE OTHER SIDE OF 53 ( YEARS ) AND JOB LESS.
BECAUSE OF THE GREAT............GLOBALISATION---------LIBERATIZATION--------PRIVATIZATION -----ETC. WE ( I ) TOOK (FORCED TO) VRS.
WE ( I ) DON'T BELONG TO TOP MANAGMENT. HENCE WHEN WE START LOOKING FOR JOBS......WE FOUND ( TOLD ) OURSELFS VERY OLD PEOPLE, NOT FIT FOR TODAY'S SETUP.
WHAT WE CAN DO NOW. THERE IS NO ORGANISATION OR NGO WHICH WILL HELP US IN STARTING A NEW LIFE AFTER VRS.
WE HAVE COMPUTERS AND WE THOUGHT WE CAN START SOME SMALL BUSINESS FROM OUR HOME, BUT WE DON'T KNOW HOW?
WE ARE READY TO DO SMALL JOBS BUT NO BODY THINK WE CAN.
SINCE THEN 4 YEARS PASSED AND NOW WE KNOW, WE ARE GOOD FOR NOTHING. AND NOW WE TOO BELIEVE THAT WE ARE A BIG LIABILITY.



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Answer 1

When anybody is immature he will not know what to do!
If anybody is having half knowledge he will not know what to do!
Try to be mature!
Try to have full knowledge!
You will do and will not ask anybody as to what to do!

Answer 2

Where there is a will, there is a way. You should not be discouraged like this. You will see some way if you think deeply. And moreover, 53 is NOT a big age to sit relaxed and have no energy in the body. You are only telling there are some computers. Apply for loan in some bank and start an internetcafe and earn some money. Use that money to set your life in a right way and go ahead with new ideas. I saw some 80 aged people working without anybody's support. And you are seemed to be distressed at 53 only! And one more thing is that problems are common to all human beings and death is not a correct answer. People to achieve some thing need not belong to top management. Study some biographies of great people and you may catch some ideas from their life. I hope you will be soon recovered from your difficulties and lead a happy life again. God helps those people who help themselves...

Answer 3

First of all, you should thank God that you have the ability to express your feelings to the world! There are lots of people who don't even express their feelings properly, and suffer whole life - doing only thinking.

Just for a moment, have a look at the human body...
There are two main parts in our (human) body. One is "above the neck", and the other is "below the neck". I guess you feed yourself (may be well!) regularly; that's for the “below the neck" part, isn't it?
Have you ever provided YOUR BRAIN the food of positivity filled with constructive, optimistic thoughts?
That's a key to the success of successful people. And those people are not your neighbours, are they?
You should associate with the people who are overcoming the problems you're facing today.

Remember this - whatever is happening to your life is perfectly OK and God-planned. And don't be shocked by this statement. Let me give you a few examples here, about how successful people never let their age become a barrier towards their success.

In the year 1914, at the age of sixty seven (67), Thomas Alva Edison (who invented the light bulb) had to go through a VERY difficult situation.
His million dollar factory was destroyed by fire. What you would do if you would have been in the place of Edison?
Edison did a creative thinking from this saddening experience and thanked God for all that had happed to him. And he told himself that all of the faults and mistakes were burned and destroyed… and he was ready to start over again. Only after three (3) weeks, he invented the Phonograph!

You see… how creative, optimistic thinking works.

You may have heard of Henry Ford. He was bankrupt at the age of forty (40).

Oh yes, the answer of "Jeancommunicates" reminded me of Ray Krock, the man behind the success of the McDonald's restaurants. Have you ever been told that he started the journey towards his success when he was just fifty nine (59) years of age!? And even worse, everyone thought he was mad!

These examples are NOT rare.

You may be thinking they're smart, genius or something like that. You're right! And remember, God never creates junk!
God loved them, and He loves you too.

YOU JUST HAVE TO PROVE YOURSELF!

Never let a problem become an excuse.

There is a great book about how to be an emotionally strong person, titled "Tough Times Never Last, But Tough People Do!" - written by Robert H. Schuller.

What that title suggesting you to do?
"The end"? - Nope! - Think again.

Learn from your joyful/painful experiences and go ahead.

The instructions you give to your mind, will be executed accordingly. So be careful. The decisions you make today will be your realities of tomorrow.

Look for possibilities that most of the people simply ignore or cannot see. There are lots of them.
When you have exhausted all possibilities, remember this: You haven't! PERIOD.

Answer 4

Get on your knees and ask Jesus Christ to come into your life and be your Lord and Savior. This is the first step. In your country is there a Wal-Mart Store or a McDonald's hamburger fast food restaurant? In America 53 is the prime of life and an American business should hire you.

Answer 5

Boss, people at your age are getting jobs. You can try teaching, where you will be respected. self employent has its up's and downs but keep yourselves active. my father is 76 and is active in law an it is only lately his services have been lauded. YOu can try your hand on social service with spare time, start an voluntary organisation - try something like planting trees - the future generation will thank you.

Answer 6

IT IS A FACT THAT PEOPLE GET OLD AND LESS ACTIVE / ABLE IN THEIR LATER DAYS.
INSPITE OF THAT KNOWLEDGE,PEOPLE DO NOT MAKE PROVISION FOR THOSE INEVITABLE DAYS.PEOPLE PREFER TO ENJOY AND SPEND THE LITTLE RESOURCES THAT THEY EARN IN THEIR GOOD TIME AND START BLAMING THE NATURAL PHENOMENON FOR THE WOES THAT ARE PEOPLE'S OWN CREATION.
NOBODY BUT THEMSELVES TO BLAME FOR THEY DID NOT MAKE PROVISION FOR THE RAINY DAYS...WHERE THE RAINY DAYS ARE INEVITABLE.
"JAISI KARNI WOISI BHARNI.
AS YOU SOW SO YOU REAP
YOU ARE GETTING THE RESULTS OF YOUR OWN ACTIONS.
IT IS NOT FAIR TO BLAME OTHERS FOR THAT.
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BUT YOU SHOULD NOT LOSE YOUR HEART.THERE IS ALWAYS A BEGINNING.
YOU SHOULD TRY YOUR BEST TO COPE WITH THE SITUATION.THE DIFFICULTY YOU ARE FACING...MIGHT HAVE BEEN FACED BY A PERSON IN HIS / HER INNITIAL DAYS ALSO.PEOPLE ARE DIFFERENT IN THEIR ABILITIES.
SO THERE SHOULD NOT BE ANY PROBLEM IN TRY YOUR BEST.
CHEER UP.
"KARMANYE BADHIKARASTE !
MA FALESHU KADACHANA !!"

Answer 7

For starters, view *turning off the caps lock key* as the first step in your bold new life.