I prefer it when my boyfriend has sex with my doggy style or him on top. But he prefers me on top. This is getting to be a problem as i dont enjoy it very much on top of him, i dont feel penitrated that much and i get bored and i never reach orgasm. I hear lots of other women love this position but i dont understand why? am i doing it wrong?
2007-02-11 04:19:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
No, you're not doing it wrong. If you don't reach climax this way then change positions. You can start off on top & then reverse positions, then you will both be satisfied. What is nice about you being on top, you can control your pleasure. :)
2007-02-11 05:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm...i had the same problem for a while with my bf. all he wanted was me in top.
and i found that what some of these other people had said was right. Either was not going about it the right way or i just was not sitting on it correctly. penitration should not be that much as a problem. as you are on top and have complete control of everything. you can make him penitrate has much as you like..it most likely maybe the way that u are positioned..
either way, for me, i told him that i didnt like it as much as him on top and even now that i do like the top we still will switch throughout sex, just to make sure that we both are satisfied. its a good way to make sure that your both getting the most out of it.
you might have done this, cause its common, but has he tried doing other things to you while your on top? like touching..i know it helped me..
2007-02-11 12:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by uninformed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its, because when your on top your doing more work and your not getting him all the way in.
When he is on top or doing doggy style with you he can put it all the way in and you enjoy it more.
2007-02-11 12:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by $~*Fearless*~$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure his penis is actually penetrating you from that position because you should be able to feel it if you can feel if from the other positions... you and your boyfriend should alternate positons being that you both like it different ways that way its fair if he doesnt want to do that and always wants you on top then i would get rid of him because sex isnt just about getting him off you have needs too
2007-02-11 12:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by Morganna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're on top have him work your clit. When I'm on top. My man works my clit with one hand. Nibbles on my nipples. And holds me with his other hand, so I can't get away. I used to hate being on top. 'Till this guy, he makes being on top worth it.
Do it flat footed on the couch so you can hold to the back. Hold yourself up and you won't get fatigued. Then have him scoot down a bit. While still impaled with him, turn around. Just get on your knees for this one.
2007-02-11 14:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by Angela T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my hubby likes me on top, too. the only way for it to "work" for me that way is to "entertain" myself with my hand while I'm up there. does that make sense? important areas down there don't get rubbed the right way, unless i rub them myself. it keeps me satisfied, and my man gets to enjoy me on top.
2007-02-11 12:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by Emily H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if on that position you feel pain, it's maybe because of some variation in your vaginal canal. but there is another reason; maybe it's just emotional problem!
2007-02-11 12:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by dive74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit on it better
2007-02-11 12:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋