2007-02-11 04:10:12 · 15 answers · asked by Logan M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to them. In a quiet time, when everyone is calm and not stressed, talk to your Mom about what is bothering you. Prepare ahead of time with some questions you have, and talk to her, or your dad as the case may be. It's not good to talk to them when they are fighting, or in a bad mood, or really tired, so plan out when you think would be a good, peaceful time to have this discussion. They need to know what you are feeling to be able to help you. If you have grandparents or an aunt or uncle nearby, or that you could email or talk to on the phone, try to get some help from your extended family too. Don't share personal info with outsiders, that might make your parents angry, but do talk about your feelings and the difficulties you are having.
good luck, and it's not your fault, and you are not alone.
2007-02-11 04:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet n Sour 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry your not the only one, i went through this too but i was 3, divorces can be a good or bad thing. first its bad because it affects the kids, good because your parents will be happier apart and the most important thing is not to think about it so much. my mom lives in china and my dad lives in ny. now i can travel to china, have fun with my mom going to japan, taiwan, singapore but i can also enjoy my life here. don't see it as a bad thing, look at the positive points and see it as making a change.
2007-02-11 04:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by StephC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not your fault. people stop being respectful to each other and they hurt each other and they cant get along so they try to make it work but sometimes it doesnt no matter what they try. it doesnt mean they dont love you. they've tried to work out their problems but they just cant. your dad and your mom will still be there for you when you need them. it's just going to be different. be nice to your mom and dad and let them know that you love them. i'm sure if you talk to them they'll explain what is going on and what's going to happen. find the right time to talk to them. you will be ok.
2007-02-11 04:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by xx x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm beginning to read the most talked about book "The Secret". It will change how you think and feel about your whole life. If I could give just one person one piece of advise that would stay with them all their lives it is this: Be happy for what you have, build with happy, positive thoughts a life you want the most. Push hard to rid yourself of bad thoughts. If you can dream it, it will be. As for your parents, think good thoughts for each of them as are you, are beginning new lives, and you each have the control to make it whatever you want. Seriously, think happy thoughts!
2007-02-11 04:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom and dad are about to divorce and i have to watch out incase my dad breaks dishes or "beat up" my mom sooooooooo its not a bad thing for parents to break up as long as its for the good of both of them
2007-02-11 04:14:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to both of your parents openly about the way you are feeling. Keep open lines of communication to both parents. They will be the ones that will be the most understanding to your situation.If for some reason that doesn't work maybe you can talk to a counselor at your school.
2007-02-11 04:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by shorty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good pastime on being there on your mom, your rewards will be tremendous for that. Your woman is being selfish and that i imagine you should drop her. If she will't comprehend that kin comes first and your mom needed you she has no heart and is not an outstanding man or woman. She should be proud that you may prefer to be inclusive of your mom and comprehend the area. an outstanding signal of how a guy will be to his spouse is how he treats his mom.
2016-11-27 00:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them how you feel, maybe they will help you. But you have to get over it. If they didn;t love each other then it's good they got divorced. They shouldn't stay together just because they have kids. But it will be alright. 2 bedrooms, extra stuff for xmas. :-D it'll be alright dude don't worry.
2007-02-11 04:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by DDR QUEEN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk to your mom and dad about this. Tell them how you feel. I'm pretty sure they'll help you feel better. Also you know that they both love you so I'm pretty sure something well work out.
2007-02-11 04:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by Sakura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them. Tell them how you feel about them getting a divorce, and how it has been affecting you.
Good Luck
2007-02-11 04:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋