if you knew your best friend was cheating with one of her good friends husbands, what would you do?

Question

my best friend has been screwing around with one of her good friends husband for awhile now.. people are starting to talk and the guys wife has no clue.. should i do anything?

Answer 1

I would stop hanging out with my best friend because I would lose all respect for her.I would not want to hear about her relationship with a married man.I would not want to be any part of it.If she can do this to one of her friends.What is going to stop her from doing it to another one of her friends?To answer your question.She would not be a friend of mine.The problem with lying,deceiving,cheating..are innocent lives are going to get caught in the cross fire..those lives are going to be changed forever..I would not want to be apart of it..

Answer 2

Do you know the wife of the guy she's cheating with? If you're friends with everyone involved, then you should consider which friendship you'd rather lose, because if my friends didn't tell me something like that, those friendships would be over.

However, if you don't know the wife, then you should just talk to your friend and let her know that you think what she's doing is wrong and that she should stop. Then leave it alone if she doesn't agree.

Answer 3

It's tough. But I would be very careful. If you tell you could end up in a messy affair. But if you don't appreciate what your friend is doing, why not tell her that she would lose as a friend. She should choose between losing you or saving her and her friend's marriages. If she's prepared to lose as a friend, I would advise that you take that option. Fact, is it would come out that your friendship terminated as a result of your friends' indiscretion. There would be less feeling of guilt if their marriages crumble. You would have tried the best thing for all!

Answer 4

Only if you have more respect for the wife than your best friend.
Either way if people are talking it will eventually get back to her.
You could let the wife know, but if you do be prepared to lose a friend.
If she was my friend, I would not trust her. obviosly she has no morals, and can't be trusted, do you want your name thrown into that scene too?
I would toss the best friend to the curb.

Answer 5

If its been happening for a while then trust me the wife knows something is up. You cannot be married, living in the same home and not have an incling feeling. Should you be the messenger? No.

Answer 6

I would tell her husband, this girl is not a good friend to anyone if she will have sex with their husband. Plus, if it were me being screwed around on, I would want someone to tell me, wouldn't you?

Answer 7

I certainly would say something to your friend and let her know that you do not approve of what she is doing, but say NOTHING to the unsuspecting one. They will find out...believe me!

By the way, I wouldn't trust her in the future. You now know what she is capable of!

Answer 8

If you want to risk your friendship, yes. But it isn't your job to be the moral compass. I would distance yourself from the entire situation because when it blows, it blows.

Granted, anonymous letters also work and you don't get the blame for it...just mail it in a neutral postal code.

Answer 9

Cheating should be illegal! There should be a punishment for married men/women who cheat! Tell her, she has a right to know! (As long as you've got proof of course.)

Answer 10

That is a tough one, if you rat her out, your risking your friendship with her. Have you told her how you feel about it? I think it might be best to stay out of this one and let nature take its course.