have done anything wrong its just a feeling that comes and i have only had sex one time without that feeling afterward is this common. oh i am not married
2007-02-11 03:32:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Yes I do. I only sleep with my partner and unfortunately we have been apart for over a year, and although I have and will not cheat on him. I feel guilty after masterbating.
2007-02-11 03:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never feel guilty about masturbating.
Sex is another story. There are many reasons why you might feel guilty and some of them are valid reasons: if you used the person and they have stronger feelings for you, if you lied to have sex...saying "I love you." when you really don't, when you went ahead and had sex with a girl and felt she wasn't ready, when you had sex with her and she told you "no."; forced sex, when you're dating one person and have sex with another, etc., etc.
Those are good reasons for anyone to feel guilty.
You may also feel guilty if it's something your parents talked to you about and told you not to do, or if you feel that sex outside of marriage isn't right.
If it's nothing you can articulate, maybe you're just feeling guilty because you think you shouldn't have had sex.
Don't sweat it too much. In the future, only have sex when it feels right and you know it's okay with her too.
2007-02-11 03:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jasper213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Why would I feel guilty in the first place? I have not wronged anyone. As Christians would say, it is a sin to masturbate because it prompts you to think "something-bad" about the person you are fantasizing. Guilt merely exists upon the education of your super-ego (or your conscience developed by cultural norms).
2007-02-11 03:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel this way, until I got older. I think my reasons were from my past sexual abuse experiences. I suppose some people may feel this way if they are religious, sex before marriage and I think masturbation is frowned upon as well. Um there are other reasons, not to suggest these apply to you but homosexuality could cause guilt feelings if you aren't comfortable with it or perhaps you are into something kinky that is not considered the norm?
2007-02-11 03:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by d_magical_s_sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I use to feel that way because I grew up with a mother than told me that women who liked having sex were sluts. The first time I had sex, I felt so ashamed and dirty.
But it doesn't bother me anymore. I have my own beliefs now that I'm an adult and I don't let my mother's beliefs influence me or my decisions anymore.
2007-02-11 05:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Abby C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your upbringing . Were you told sex was bad by your parents or church? that's probably where the guilty feelings are coming from . Parents tell you tinking it's for your own good . Little do they Know they do more harm then good . Sex is wonderfu!!
2007-02-11 03:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by winnerfull-1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, mainly it's just a painful stinging in my eyes.
But, hmmm... that could just be from the pepper spray.
There's a whole lot of hormonal things going on in your body after sex, which may manifest itself into emotional feelings.
Also, you may be religious, which causes guilt, fear, anxiety anytime you experience pleasure.
2007-02-11 03:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by Skyhawk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never feel guilty. But I also do not have any moral objections to sex/masturbation, either.
2007-02-11 03:35:12 · answer #8 · answered by Venin_Noir 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I don't feel guilty.
I would feel guilty if I cheated on my partner, but since I have not I am within my comfort zone.
2007-02-11 03:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by mitchell2020 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that used to happen when I was younger, but, believe me, it fades with time. There is no reason to feel guilty at all.
2007-02-11 03:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by lysistrata411 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋